19 June 2008

Girl Molested - His View

As I have expected, the John fella has finally come out to give his side of the story. For what was originally a small pile of turd. It has escalated to an avalanche of SHIT.

Moral of the story. If you are presented with a bucket of shit. Don't stir it.

Initially I thought the guy was going to just deny it or admit it was a genuine misread of signals or say it was consensual between the two parties. Then this champion guy throw in an extra spanner for the win.

A SGD 48,000 loan to her.

Of course Jean flatly denied it and claimed that it was a gift.


If you tell me, the girl and the guy are in a relationship then maybe there is a remote possibility that it could be a gift but in her own words in her own blog where she made such a big fuss over the bedroom miscommunication, you still think it was a gift?

Had she just shut the fark up, all these would have just gone away unnoticed and everybody walk away unharmed. And quite possibly still be able to hang on to the money.


So tell me. Who is the villain here?

Ok, so I am drawing conclusion based only on what I have read and it is known that the mickey mouse media have a bad habit of garnish shit with more crap. And so, I shall reserve 10% of all this to benefit of doubt as I am sure what actually happened and what's reported in the news will not be a perfect match.


Part of me also speculating that perhaps this was a premeditated publicity stunt to get media attention? I was informed via an unverified source that Jean was the one who approached the TheNewPaper with the story. And of course our local mickey mouse tabloid is more than happy to obliged.

Afternote: Jean has commented and said that it was TheNewPaper who approached her about the story. However, she being an involved party in this saga herself, she is thereby disqualified as a verified source as well. Perhaps someone form the TheNewPaper care to enlighten us on this particular matter?


I know people who are friends with Jean both in real life and online. I wonder how these folks are feeling now that this bucket of shit as flown up and hit the ceiling fan? I wonder how these folks feel getting caught in the middle of it all. Are they going to stand by her regardless or are they going to stand by the truth which may or may not be in her favour?

If you are friends of Jean, please share with us how you are feeling now.

- Voxeros

1. spiller left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 1:28 pm
 avalanche of SHIT indeed. SGD 48K? this guy is an Ah Long or what?

2. JayWalk left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 1:32 pm :: 
Spiller: Not Ah Long. Just a damn bladdy big Lorbert.

3. Jaycoool left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 1:37 pm
The guy is damn poor thing lah. Pine for her so long still kana cheated in the end. Chaocheebye bitch

4. r3gular left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 2:02 pm ::
I feel for the guy.
$48k gone and still kenna jialat jialat by her.
The girl jin smart.

5. winter left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 2:14 pm
S$48K leh. not S$48. a bit far fetched to be a gift. and no guys will give such money without expecting anything.

6. JayWalk left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 2:17 pm :: 
JayCoool: Welcome to the blog! It remains to be seen if she will cough up the money to return to the guy.

r3gular: It also helped that the guy not very the smart.

winter: Winter! Long time no see!! So what do you think the guy was expecting in return?

7. cakie left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 2:25 pm
there is no such thing as a free lunch.

8. karen left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 2:43 pm
This is what I say:
Kiang tio ho, mai gek kiang. (Don't act smart)
See, if she didn't not act so high and mighty in her blog and revealed all his details, she would not have to be portrayed in such light. She kicked up such a fuss about how 'traumatized' she was from the incident BUT she is still in a very clear state of mind to know the difference between a 'gift' and a 'loan'.
A person who can argue that 48k is a gift is clearly justifying herself for reasons unknown to others.
Now, what else on her version that does not tally with his version of events?

9. Jf left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 2:52 pm
well.. this is a classic case of woman tinkin too highly of herself....
48K as a gift? she tink her cb studded with diamonds mehhh and more imptly 48K as a gift to even megan fox would deem as extravagant.
End of the day, woman costs money.. this one 48K

10. TTY left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 3:48 pm
KNN 48K and no fark? 48K can get many many many virgin in spitland! Stupid both! KNN!

11. Pam left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 5:17 pm
stupid is as stupid gets... can't believe this poor bugger. but seriously, perhaps my values have 'warped' since living here for so long, but I think it's rather hypocritical the whole situation. There seems to be this culture of 'false modesty' on the surface; but lets face it, I'm sure many of us know of going-ons that take place behind closed doors (sometimes open doors?!). It's so ridiculously petty, the 'She let me hug her' headline - hello, are we teenagers here? no, he's frigging 30-something!!!!?

12. ihawk98 left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 5:19 pm
This char boh really too much....S$48K you think everyone just gibe ah...then now cry father cry mother....

13. mht left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 5:57 pm
sit back, relax....enjoy the show....

14. Ruok left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 6:00 pm
John's middle name must really be "Robert".

15. left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 6:40 pm ::
well, i do have additional coverage here,

16. J left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 6:46 pm
jesuschrist, what a load of drama.

17. aloe left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 6:57 pm
Siao!! Why would anyone give a person $48K as a gift unless that person (the gift-giver) is really SIAO! duh loh.

18. aloe left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 7:00 pm
And siao! got money to buy car, no money to repay people. That gal also vely clever... or stoopid... I intend to tink the former though... katok ppl until so jialat..
Reading this, my sympathies lies with the guy....

19. Jean left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 10:09 pm ::
Hi, Jaywalk, your unverified source that I contacted the TNP is wrong. TNP approached me for an interview.

20. NNPC left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 10:46 pm ::
Walao sibeh jialat la deh. There is no cure for stupidity.

21. Winsor left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 10:56 pm ::
woah, more and more details coming though.

22. CoWg0eSm0o left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 11:28 pm ::
wooooooooo...jean commented..... more details....hurhurhur...

23. wcw left...
Thursday, 19 June 2008 11:56 pm
"He said Amy was the first woman he had pursued in nearly a decade." eh..this type of guy quite rare leh..actually, some more quite rich, can loan $48k just like tat.

24. Stan left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 6:24 am
Man....i'm speechless xia.
This is incredulous.

25. Mistress Grace left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 9:22 am
Like I said in my previous comment in your entry. I feel that this is all a hoax to slime the guy.. Looks like I am right.. 48K he is gigantic Lorbert liaos lor... for 48K enough to get married and have 2 kids liaos

26. fitti left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 10:21 am
For a "traumatised victim", she sure has a darn clear mind. The truth will come to light soon. Period.

27. JayWalk left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 10:45 am :: 
Cakie: I couldn't have said it better. Even if the guy tell her straight in the face that it is a gift with no strings attached. That's still total bullshit if one has any common sense.

Karen: Well, you can trust our mickey mouse tabloids to continue to dish out the dirt over the next few days. Stay tuned.

JF: In a way, I have to agree that women cost money. And at a price tag of 48K, I think the guy kena kertok. Lodge a complain to CASE?

TTY: You and your obssession with PRC virgins. Dude, you are starting to scare me. =P

Pam: Perhaps it is no longer accurate to judge a person's maturity by the person's age. Perhaps this is a case of a person thrust into reality after years of sheltered life?

ihawk98: I am with you on this. There is no way that $48k is a gift, given the guy's financial background.

mht: Stop hogging the tub of popcorn, dammit!

ruok: The full name is John Robert Tock Cai Tao. Welcome to the blog! I was just about to do the "How many chickens can you get for $48k! Great minds think alike. ;)

J: Welcome to the blog too. Looks like I am having a bumper crop of new commentors. Welcome! Coming back to your comment. I think in this case, Jesus Christ had less drama.

aloe: Like I said. If it looks like 48k, tastes like 48k and feels like 48k. It is NOT a gift.

28. JayWalk left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 10:54 am :: 
Jean: Hi Jean. Glad to see you here. It's going to be a rough ride for you going forward. Whatever the outcome, your own health is ultimately still the most important. Please take care of yourself.

I thank you for coming forward to correct me on the fact that it was TNP who contacted you, in contrary to the unverified source. Like I said, it was unverified. I just echoed what was told to me.

Unfortunately, given that you are one of the two involved parties, I have no choice but also to qualify you as an unverified source as well.

I will amend my entry accordingly to reflect this.

29. JayWalk left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 11:02 am :: 
NNPC: Typical engineer lor... *don't flame me!!!*

Winsor & CowGoesMoo: This is going to be all over the place for the next 2 weeks. Guess what? 2 weeks after that and it would be all forgotten when it blows over.

wcw: Ten year chase 1 girl is not rare. It's Duhhhhhhhh............ FAIL.

Stan: This is what you get from living on a boring little island.

Mistress Grace: 48K to start a family? Not in Singapore! Maybe move up north to Batu Pahat then can.

fitti: Well, you will have to pace yourself properly with the tub of popcorn. Don't watch drama halfway, popcorn eat finish liao.

30. J left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 11:17 am
what welcome to your blog haha! you know who i am! i use this and the other nick depending on my mood. :)

31. karen left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 11:58 am
But the local tabloids do not always reflect the truth in their entirety.
They twist words to make the story more sensational. If not, how to be be a tabloid you tell me?

32. JayWalk left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 12:20 pm :: 
J: Walau... which J is this? I actually have a few "J"s out there wor.... but I just lump them and assuming it is one person.

Karen: It's all about readership numbers for these tabloid. So just take everything with a whole lump of salt.

33. visceral left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 12:55 pm ::
The New Paper does not come to mind when I am looking for objective and factual news. And whatever the outcome, both parties will lose their reputations and dignity at the end of the day.

34. karen left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 1:09 pm
I agree with Visceral.
Oh well, at least they both had their shots at fame, though for the wrong reasons.

35. Vandalin left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 2:59 pm ::
Oh, the eventual winner's the media, and the lawyers.

36. JayWalk left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 3:00 pm :: 
Visceral & Karen: Yeah. Ultimately the winner is TheNewPaper whom the two have been cunningly made use of to chalk up paper sales during the past few days.

37. yun left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 3:03 pm ::
maybe, jean is conservative. but been conservative wun go overseas with a guy alone.
if its as wad john said, tat when they were outside he will put his hands on her waist. then i think hugging is nothing.
as a female point of view, if she's raped, stripped, abuse, SM, wadever, yes, that guy is bastard. hugging i seriously think its not worth to involve lawyers. expensive leh. lol.
but of coz, both side got their story, who's right who's wrong, God knows. *shrugs

38. NNPC left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 3:08 pm ::
eh i IT fella deh

39. JayWalk left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 3:48 pm :: 
Yun: Each side got their own version of the story to tell and trust me, they sure tell it in their respective favour one.

NNPC: You have my condolences. *pat pat* =P

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