28 April 2006

Water, Water, Everywhere. But Not A Drop To Drink.

I just woke up in the hotel after being in and out of airplanes for 20+ hours. I like Korean Airlines better then Northwest Airlines that I usually fly. Wonder if anybody knows why.

Anyway, once I landed at Greensboro at about 4pm, I headed straight to my hotel which I planned to rest up proper until I head into the market the next day.

As I entered my room, I realised one thing. I don't have water. I forgot to buy a bottle before hopping into the hotel shuttle. Darn.

Here are my options:

1) No water
Forget about drinking water until the next day when I get into the market. I am sure I won't die just because I don't have water for the next 18 hours right? It may feel miserable but I am sure I would survive.

2) Step out to the nearest quickie-mart to buy
In the US where it is sometimes impossible to get around without a car, I was fortunately to have a convenience store without 10-minutes walk but all that journey for a lousy bottle of water? Bear in mind, it's 10 minutes to get there and another 10 minutes to get back. I can't guarantee I won't get mugged en route too.

Anyway, it's raining quite heavily so no deal.

3) Go into the restaurant and order a bottle as a take-out
A very expensive option since restaurants do mark up quite exorbitantly on water, assuming they have bottled ones.

Well, I fell asleep as soon as I get into my room only to wake up at 10pm, way past restaurant hours already.

4) Water From The Tap
While it is true that tap water in the US is safe to drink but that is based on the assumption that the building's plumbing and piping is up to standard. My hotel has been around for years and I don't feel safe drinking it straight.

4a) Water From The Coffee Maker
If tap water isn't safe to drink, then boiling the water would be a better option. The trick is to pour tap water into the coffee maker and turn it on without adding coffee. Problem is that while you are able to kill off some of the germs with the boiling, you get a hint of coffee taste in the water. This stems from the fact that the housekeeping maids don't really wash the coffee makers properly. What you are tasting is essentially coffee from a previous pot from some other stranger.

4b) Water From The Ice Machine
Because they are already in the form of ice cubes, you feel safe psychologically since they seem to have been processed by a machine i.e. untouched by the human hand. Still, it is still very much the same water from the very same source but different outlet.

5) Vending Machines
Problem with this is that more often then not, sugar-loaded sodas are all they have to offer.

Well, in the end, I went for this option thinking that Diet Coke would be the lesser of the evils. Then I realised that I don't have small change as the machines takes only singles ($1 notes) and coins.

I guessed I was lucky to be made to go down to the lobby to break a 20 when I found out that the vending machine in the lobby stocked Aquafina water. I was saved!!

Ok, so I guess I caught a small break there.

Note to self: Remember to grab a couple of bottles of water from my clients' showroom at the market before heading back to the hotel.

Bottoms up!

Image Credit:

- Voxeros

1. Jaschoco left...
Thursday, 27 April 2006 8:37 pm
Ke lian...

2. koreanhousewife left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 1:47 am ::
Fountain of Youth,
Hmmm...the water topic. Lately me and TIAN AR! were at a berri established fancy cake shop (dont wish to highlight name). I ordered a pot of peppermint tea and dark chocolate brandy cherries cake. She wanted a pot of lavender tea and tiramisu. We wanted plain water, however was told tat the place does not serve tat. Askin us: How abt some sparkling water? Yup, I refuse to order. Is it tat hard to serve plain water?
Anyway, U are overseas... Eat well and take gd care of the well being. I care...

3. akk left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 9:50 am
wah lau!!! so much thought for a bottle of water! Shall I get you a water bottle? Fill up before flight, fill up after flight and ta-daa....water for hotel. :) heheheh...but i'm glad u did not take 1st option. I'd like the convinience store option, cos i'd buy more than water.

4. X|a_m|_m| left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 9:58 am ::
Yupz...drinking boiled water will be the best..buying those mineral water is just too expensive for the long term.. =)
But..erm...grabbing a few more bottle from client's office...well..don't really sound like a good idea lei.. =S

5. kim left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 10:56 am
wah piang. i really take my hats off your blogging skills -- all for a bottle of water. hahaha.. For me, I always bring a bottle of water with me when I fly overseas, then attempt to save every last drop 'cause the water overseas don't taste the same. haha..

6. JayWalk left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 4:53 pm ::
Jaschocolate: Not that kelian lah.. just part and parcel of traveling.

KoreanHouseWife: Try going to a restaurant in France! Sparkling or Still water, both from the bottle. They absolutely refuse to serve water from the tab.

Akk: Problem with some of these convenience store is that they sell water by the gallon (3.8l) and then lug it back!

Xia Mi Mi: Grabbing bottles of water from the clients' place is actually the standard practice for everybody. So no harm done there.

kim: With more than 20+ hours of flying, I don't think 1 puny little bottle will last. So how may bottles are you willing to lug?

7. Sallie left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 5:09 pm
i think it's the case of most european countries won't serve water from tap. when you say water please, they'll say 'sparkling or still'. that's my experience anyway, in Germany, Italy, France and even some eastern european places. in the UK, it's getting less common to have tap water, unless you specify.

8. JayWalk left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 6:16 pm :: 
SALlie: Over here in Ch1na, tap water is strictly for washing only. We use bottle (Big ones lah) mineral water for cooking.
Not sure about the restaurants though.

9. ris left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 9:51 pm
hehe, toilet water not an option? but isnt the taste of coffee always hard to get rid of from a coffee maker?

10. Mum2One left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 9:53 pm
Hahaha...Don't they have bottled mineral water in their minibar in the hotel room for you to put on tab?

11. winter left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 10:43 pm
i feel thirsty hearing bout the water

12. jaschoco left...
Saturday, 29 April 2006 11:00 am
Got diff between sparkling and still? Sorry, i sua ku..

13. Zhe Bin left...
Saturday, 29 April 2006 12:03 pm
Eh I think ask AKK not to get you water bottle. Cos everywhere also not safe to drink one the water. Just ask her to get you a kettle. = )

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Saturday, 29 April 2006 6:26 pm ::
ris: Coffee taste is hard to get rid of, especially when the coffee maker has been the same one in that room for years!
p.s. Hey, I am beginning to see you a bit more often here. Care to intro yourself a bit more to the rest of us? :)

Mum2One: Ahh.. you spoilt little princess! Over here in this ulu town where got mini bar one? Big city hotels got lah. Over here, the fridge is for you to buy stuff and store them inside one.

Winter: Go go! Go drink more water. Good for your complexion and then you can be more swee swee when I come back. :P

Jaschocolate: Sparkling means got gas inside one like Perrier, LaCroix or San Peregrino.
Still means your normal plain water like Evian, Aqua, Vit, etc...

ZheBin: Mai lah... kettle so unglam!! Another way is the nuke it with the microwave oven lor.

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Saturday, 29 April 2006 7:43 pm ::
The only drop left,
Sparkling or still, I dont like both. When I oversea, I hate the fact tat I missed soya bean milk, JJ liang teh, grass jelly, honey lemon and all the local local kind of drinks. I am totally not into gasy (heng, no ego bloat). So I ended up drinkin alot of milk, hot chocolate or milkshakes. When I was in Swiss I see my GF kid (2yo) always only wants milk and juice. Her hubby also Juice, coffee or coke. In office, most boys also starbucks and coke, now the vain one go for diet coke:P To find one who still go for plain water is rare. Anyway, must drink alot of water so tat the skin stay hydrated and dewy. I think lately my skin condition damn bad, cos cry too much like a tap, CMI:P

16. Jaschoco left...
Saturday, 29 April 2006 7:43 pm
Wau lao.. water only need to be so chin mah.. Weirdos...

17. koreanhousewife left...
Saturday, 29 April 2006 7:48 pm ::
Anyway the water issue was brought up by Jason Hahn (8 days foodie writer). I forgotten which issue, but tot wat he wrote was extremely well-written. Kudos!

18. ris left...
Saturday, 29 April 2006 8:13 pm
19+f hey, have you ever come across those hotel mini bars with drinks that are impossible to put back once you pull them out!? it was so embarrassing to explain to them that i just wanted to see how the bottle looked like -.-

19. JayWalk left...
Saturday, 29 April 2006 8:37 pm ::
KoreanHouseWife: Let me break this down so that you can see it properly.
Soya Bean Mile - Sugar
JJ Liang Teh - Sugar[[br[[ Grass Jelly - Sugar
Honey Lemon - Sugar
Milk - Ok, you get away with this one!
Hot Chocolate - Sugar
Milkshakes - Sugar
Juice - Sugar
Coffee - Sugar
Coke - Sugar
Starbucks - Sugar

Dehydrated because cry too much? Cry only? What else? :P

Jaschocolate: Ahh... the little naive one. Water of course chim ok!!
Never hear before? Still Water Runs Deep Deep?

ris: Some of the hotels have sensors in the minibar fridge where they know what you have taken out even without needing to check the fridge physically.

20. koreanhousewife left...
Sunday, 30 April 2006 8:05 am
Remember to water the plant,
*pinched, twisted* Also read yr blog over here and laugh until I cry, cannot is it? (eg, the kettle joke damn funny!!! Hehe)
Dont know lei, at oversea, people seldom boil water. Like my Aussie mates (photographers & crews) everytime only drink coffee, coke and beer.
Aiyo, if kettle unglam, U can get those mini flask lei, wont take up too much baggie space one. Then U can ZU KAI SHUI in yr hotel room lor.
*pinched, twisted* U die, U told the whole world wat I do at yr blog! So bad!

21. koreanhousewife left...
Sunday, 30 April 2006 8:13 am
wat I mean is, at yr ex blog. U wrote wat my trade is! Alamak!

22. JayWalk left...
Sunday, 30 April 2006 4:58 pm :: 
KoreanHouseWife: Laugh until cry ah? Orh. Can. Can.
Mini flask damn leceh lah. I travel very light one. Can pack everything including samples, color panels and clothes for 2 weeks into 1 mid-size luggage case one. Never more than that.
p.s. Change your trade in the other comment liao. Sorry. My bad.

23. koreanhousewife left...
Sunday, 30 April 2006 5:15 pm
Fill up my bath tub,
*Tsk. People provide U with solution, U say leceh! Can die! I am talkin abt tis kind:
How much baggie space can take up? Anyway tat day TIAN AR! was only 5 mins late from missin her flight to Melbourne:( They didnt let her board the plane. So she scare to go back home, scarly might get scoldin from her mom. So I ask her to come my humble place and overnite. Then also asked her to repack. Only 5 days trip, like bring a whole MOUNTAIN!
I also like to travel light, then come back can bring back more presents mah:P My last trip from Swiss brought back 40 bars of chocolate, 12 pairs of shoes and alot alot of other presents. Damn killer:P

24. koreanhousewife left...
Sunday, 30 April 2006 5:22 pm
Ok lah, dont complaint lah. When U come back tis year end, I give the mini flask to U as present lah! In exchange, I want want want the victoria’s secret Heavenly angel perfume, coach bag and 42 huge reese’s cupcake from USA! Dont care! Muhahahahah....
Ok, seriously, I get U the flask lah...

25. JayWalk left...
Monday, 1 May 2006 1:27 pm ::
KoreanHouseWife: Thanks for the kind thought but please don't get the flask. I only lagi headache one.
When I say, I travel light, I really mean I travel damn LIGHT one.

26. winter left...
Monday, 1 May 2006 9:47 pm
my complexion is so far so good *touch wood*
cos i got drink more than enough water :P

27. aloe left...
Tuesday, 2 May 2006 9:18 am
i think i would have walked to the convenience store.... I like... Otherwise, if I'm feeling lazy I would go for going without or buy from vending machine bah.
usually travel with half full luggage.... cos arh... things I buy can stuff into luggage, no need to hand carry, which is GOOD! haa!!
Just remember to bring mineral water with u next time loh. Can throw away the the bottle when u finished too.
Too bad that airlines usually provide water in a cup hor. If it's in a bottle, then can keep liao.

28. JayWalk left...
Wednesday, 3 May 2006 2:35 pm ::
Anna: Airlines do serve water in a bottle as well.
I make a point to insist on that as the on-board filtration system for drinking water can be quite disgusting.

27 April 2006

The Student - Past vs Present

"...I talk to other instructors it seems like this is becoming a problem. Because all classrooms are wireless hot spots, many students are playing games, writing e-mails, and browsing web pages during class periods. Text messaging happens constantly..."

My cousin, Roy, teaches in a university in Michigan and the above was an extract of an email from him, lamenting about his work and I thought this is an interesting topic to bring up for discussion.

While I am not about to venture into a "During my time, we had to walk 5,000 miles, everyday, barefooted on broken glass just to go to school" rant, I want to touch on the topic of the role of the student - Past vs Present.

I remembered during my time where everybody had to study hard and try to outdo each other in order to get into the modules of their choice. I also remembered dialing into the NTUVAX system from home instead of going to the school's lab to sign up for classes, since class registration opens at 8am and the computer labs don't open until 9am. As a result, I got all my class modules of choice, resulting in a 3-day week for me.

The truth is, other than working my time-table to accommodate my partying schedule, I also worked my time-table so that I get the lecturer and/or tutor of choice. Roger Marshall (Consumer Behavior), Bvsan Murthy (International Marketing) and Benny Tabalujan (Law) were some that deserved a good mention here. As "world-class" as NTU may proclaimed to be, we certainly also had our fair share of lecturing/tutoring disasters which everybody avoided like the plague.

My point is, that back then, it was the student who seeks the lecturer/tutor.

Today, it seems that this trend has been reversed. The lecturer/tutor are doing what they can to attract the students.

Suddenly, the student is the customer.

Oh the indignation of a noble profession gone cheap.

My advice to Roy is this. Content is King. Period.

You can do all sorts of fandango audio-visuals effects with a capital W for WOW factor, but still no better than a circus act should there be no substance.

I am appalled at the fact that a teacher has to perform the role of a clown in order to get the students' attention. A song and dance routine in order to appease the students.

I say, if the students are not interested to learn, fuck them. You don't owe them an education. Mind you, these college students are adults i.e. they can think for themselves. Stop mothering them. If they can't be arsed to sort out their priorities right, then why should you?

For every errant student, there is a diligent one. Perhaps it would be better allocating of invaluable resources by focusing on them and ditch the losers?

Here's my question to the 3 groups of you reading this. The current students. The ex-students. The current teachers.

What do you have to say about this?

Image Credit:
- Voxeros

1. Sallie left...
Wednesday, 26 April 2006 6:27 pm
you know how I feel about them. In a way it's a consolation to hear that Roy's experiencing the same thing in America. Over here, because we've recently introduced fees (previously, students didn't have to pay university fees), students now think that they have the right to demand. In our recent feedback evaluation (why the heck do we need evaluation?!), some comments we got were some of the lecturers were boring (that's because they were trying to transmit theories and frameworks, not tell grandfather stories - which they seem to prefer), the textbooks were boring/too thick (just because it doesn't have many pictures), and the topic they opted for wasn't what they wanted (well, they had up to 4 weeks to change out of it at the start of term, why didn't they?).

someone overheard two students walking down a corridor saying 'OMG, i can't believe he expects us to read?!!'. hmm. students don't read anything unless they have to, and it has to be readily available. Apparently, researching the topic in question is no longer the thing to do, because you as teacher are expected to provide everything. if you expect them to research, questions come back as to 'your essay title is too difficult, complicated', it's not covered in the syllabus, why is it not in the textbook (well,it's in the journal article, it's in another textbook)...

As lecturers, we have to write a report if more than 15% of the class fails. A conundrum then happens - do you want to write the report and basically say well, the students were shit, so we failed them (hence blaming the recruitment department), or say well, i was a shit teacher?, or what? Or you end up 'passing' these students against your conscience. big big decisions here...

I can go on and on... but I shan't. I think what really annoys me to no end is the fact that students nowadays appear to head on to university because 'it's expected' and therefore i can get a better job (So the logic follows). when actually, it's about the pursuit of knowledge, the betterment of self (not just through studying, but the interaction with classmates, the extra curricular activities, the workshops we set up for them, the presentation skills they learn etc). I know some students say things like it's better to get any degree from a good university rather than to go to a worse university to study the subject I want - I don't get that, at all.

2. kim left...
Wednesday, 26 April 2006 10:25 pm
what? you mean you all were able to choose lecturers and tutors? these days we cant even choose (this might be the case for only my course, I have no idea). we just reg for the course that best fit our timetable and pray hard we get it. If not, too bad so sad, leading to us scrambling to register for another course.

In school, I see people surfing the web on ebay to do shopping during tutorials/lectures. But I guess that is a matter of choice. You don't wanna listen, fine with me. I listen. Just don't disturb the rest of us who wanna listen by chatting loudly or something.
This leads me to my next point: Some lecturers' accent really CMI I tell you. As some hail from Ch1na / HK, they cant really pronounce the words and the lecture turns into a lesson with them attempting to pronounce the words instead of him lecturing. Some speak with a curly wurly accent that I have problem understanding a single word they say. Not that I have anything against their nationality, but if it's really a problem for us, I think we would have to give them some feedback since not being able to understand them = nothing learnt at all. No?

3. X|a_m|_m| left...
Thursday, 27 April 2006 1:16 am ::
Yupz..the same happens in my school too...
These students who aint the least bit interested in learning yet still set foot into class makes me irritated to no end.

What's this? Going to class to make a nuisance of themselves? Sometime I wish I could just turn to those wastrels behind me yakking ever since class started & tell them to shut up or better still get out of the class if they are not interested in the lesson...grr...

4. jettykey left...
Thursday, 27 April 2006 2:34 am ::
I think the students of today are very different from those in the past. For one, disciplinary actions are mostly done away. Yes, students demand from the teachers, instead of the other way around. I wouldn't want to be a teacher of today's students.

5. sunflower left...
Thursday, 27 April 2006 9:02 am ::
I agreed with you Teacher don't owe the student an education. I also don't agree with the idea, the parents pass the responsibility to the teacher to discipline the kid.

6. akk left...
Thursday, 27 April 2006 10:46 am
i'm both the last 2 options. education is something you have to fight and reach for, not something to be given. of cos, as the teacher, u should give as much as u can but should always leave something hanging; the student should never just sit and take everything in, but should find and tie the loose ends.

Fuck the term 'customers'. lecturers/presidents who say that are only rooting for awards and bonuses and increase enrollment, usually to justify the lack of research.

7. JayWalk left...
Thursday, 27 April 2006 2:10 pm :: 
SALlie: I knew you'd be the first to comment here. Heh heh.
Some subjects are just dry by nature. What's a lecturer going to do about it? Magic show?
Also the fact that university is now easier then last time as long as you have money. Kinda makes it difficult for the lecturers now that they have to deal with a lower grade of "material".

kim: My time, the Indian professors are the ones that gave us the most grief. While we can't choose lecturers per se, we were able to pick the various tutors that conducts the respective supporting tutorials.

Xia Mi Mi: Welcome to the blog! I supposed we are free to do whatever we want. The onus of motivation should rest on the students and not the lecturers/tutors.
However, I believe it is basic manners for your fellow students that you do not disturb the others' peace.

JettyKey: I think being a teacher up to JC level should still be ok. After all the discipline up to that level still pretty heavily enforced. It's the Poly/Uni levels where the students starts to go haywire thinking that they are free to do whatever they want.

8. JayWalk left...
Thursday, 27 April 2006 2:22 pm ::
Sunflower: I think in this context, we are talking about kids who are older and perhaps even in their early 20s. I don't think discipline of the child is no longer relevant here.

Akk: I believe the lecturer is of the view that he/she is willing to teach if the student is willing to learn.
Teachers after all are human too and they too needs motivation from time to time needs a reason to justify getting out of bed on a school day.

9. Sallie left...
Thursday, 27 April 2006 4:51 pm
Interesting to read from various countries that the 'students nowadays' really appear to be similar to each other (not country dependent) and very different from our generation and beyond.

The good and appreciative students make it worthwhile to get up in the morning and go to work. When you open an appreciative email saying that they got into a Masters programme in Cambridge as a result of your fantastic recommendation, when their parents and relatives come to university to thank you personally for what you've done for them, when they remember you a few years after you taught them, when they willingly come back to university to talk to the current cohort of students because their experience at uni was positive - that's when it seems all worth while!! :)

10. JayWalk left...
Thursday, 27 April 2006 8:46 pm ::
SALlie: True but how many students these days are appreciative of their respective teachers?
* Granted that useless and worthless teachers are to be excluded.

11. Sallie left...
Thursday, 27 April 2006 9:12 pm
all those examples I cited were true! all happened to me. but yes, how many of them are appreciative? not many - and i think it's got to do with the 'i'm a customer/consumer' mentality...

12. Everton left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 12:13 pm
Unfortunately, some students expect to be "entertained" by their professors :-( Their evaluations will affect your promotion and tenure. The pressure is definitely on the instructors if there are multiple sections offered for the same course. You will look bad if you end up having lowest enrollment at the end of the semester.
To be fair, not every American student is dumb and lazy. I have several excellent students.

13. Everton left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 12:39 pm
I can totally understand Kim's frustration with her Ch1na and HK instructors. Former Prime Minister LKY once delivered a speech to the U.S. Congress. Although LKY's an intelligent and well educated person, my American friends had a hard time following him because of the heavy accent.
To curb foreign accent problems, many states in the U.S. have passed laws require foreign teaching assistants and professors to pass mandatory English oral exams before they are allowed to teach classes!
I believe if you give your best effort to teach your students, they will show their appreciation. It's really sweet of my students to send me thank-you cards and e-mails, even though I am a foreigner.

14. JayWalk left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 4:59 pm ::
SALlie: Looks like you need a song and dance routine. How about a stand-up comic gig? Pole dancing? mmmmmmm...........

Everton: Finally managed to lure you out into the open after all these years. Welcome to your first comment.
LKY's english is actually not too bad. You should come and listen to these ch1nese and indian lecturers.
I guarantee your american friends would straight away take out the gun from their bags and shoot themselves in the head straight away!

15. Sallie left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 5:13 pm
Frankly, LKY's accent is completely comprehensible. My hubby (who isn't Singaporean) heard him speak (infamous conversation with the kindergarteners) and completely understood him. I wouldn't quite class him as someone with a 'heavy accent'. Some scottish people, hmm...they have 'heavy' accents! !hahahaaaaaaaaaaaa.
I once had a Chinese lecturer when I was in NUS and boy, was it difficult to understand him. In the end, we ignored him, copied the OHPs (not many people used powerpoint then!?) and hoped for the best. :)

16. JayWalk left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 6:54 pm ::
SALlie: You can't compare an american with a briton. After our dear Harry Lee is british educated and as such, no surprises there is your hubby can understand him and the yanks can't.

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Friday, 28 April 2006 10:15 pm
Having been on the receiving end before, I must say that there is a marked difference between a lecturer who is trained to teach and a lecturer who isn't. I've had both types and the trained ones were always more creative and the students learnt better and do better. Also the materials and information given were more thoughtful and relevant.
How often do you get information given to you that you end up not knowing what to do with it?
Hence there's always room for improvement in quality of the lecturer just as there's always room for better attitude from the students.

18. Everton left...
Saturday, 29 April 2006 6:10 am
I agree while the accent problem exists, it is probably overblown. In my humble opinion, it’s just a matter of attuning one’s ear to the accent. Unfortunately, some American undergraduates are very intolerant of people with accent.

The "Oh No! Syndrome" represents the negative reactions of American undergraduate towards a foreign teaching assistant or professor when they walk into a class on the first day of a term/semester. Researchers have argued that American undergraduates play an equally important role for the existence of the Oh No! Syndrome.

In a 1995 study, Nagesh Rao attempted to correlate the degree of accentedness and American students' expectations of foreign instructors' language skills. Results indicated that when students' language expectations of foreign instructors were confirmed, they felt more angry and anxious, evaluated the foreign instructors less favorably, and were more likely to drop a class taught by a foreign instructor. Simply put, they think you are a dumb a** if you don’t speak perfect American English. Racist, huh?

19. JayWalk left...
Saturday, 29 April 2006 6:40 pm :: 
 Mum2One & Everton: I have my fair share of grief with indian lecturers during my time and I do have to split them into 2 categories.

1) The one who just go on like a machine gun without due care if anyone understands him or not.

2) Then we have the better ones who take the time to speak slowly and clearly. Pausing from time to time to see if we are following him thus far. This little gestures go a long way and we as students appreciated it tremendously simply because we felt that the lecturer actually gave a rat's ass if he was teaching well.
I am not saying that foreign lecturers should be made to speak perfect english. Merely understandable english would suffice. The lecturer must understand where he is and MUST adapt to the local environment.

We are often amused when our foreign lecturers deliberately add a lah or loh at the end of the sentence with much comic effect. He may have gotten it wrong, but hey, at least he tried.

Those who failed at this hurdle, while I am not saying that they are not talented people, they are perhaps better off in a research capacity away from people who can't understand a word that he is saying.

20. aloe left...
Tuesday, 2 May 2006 9:38 am
i did ever encounter some lecturers who teach from the text aka they just read out their presentations or just read from the textbooks. That's where a low opinion of them forms and the number of students dwindled. Of course, the last few lectures are essential in finding out if there's any tips for the exams but it comes to nought when the lecturer continues to read from the text with no explanation, no additional info whatsoever.
usually seniors will also give advise on the tutors and lecturers of the particular course so those word-of-mouth stuff really works here.

We ever had an indian lecturer with accent but guess his long stay in an english speaking country has toned that down a LOT. His lectures are not to be missed and he usually teach with real life examples which makes a dry lesson interesting.
nowadays, a lot of schools are emphasizing that they have a high number of teachers who are PHD holders to attract more students but actually, having a phd doesn't mean you can or know how to teach.

21. Pam left...
Tuesday, 2 May 2006 5:57 pm
Yes, having a PhD doesn't mean you can or know how to teach. that's way about 5years ago or so, the whole of UK's higher education universities implemented that all new PhDs had to undergo teacher training courses that last 2 years. it still doesn't guarantee that they can teach but at least it's a mandatory thing.

22. JayWalk left...
Wednesday, 3 May 2006 2:41 pm :: 
Anna & Pam: Yah. PHD is just a paper recognition of a person's depth in a particular field. It's in no way a good indicator that he/she would be a good teacher.

26 April 2006

Music Meme With A Twist

It's been quite a while since I got tagged to do a meme. Thanks OLLie and Jettykey*
* Ahhh.. remember the good old days?

Instructions: Go to your music player of choice and put it on shuffle. Say the following questions aloud, and press play. Use the song title as the answer to the question. NO CHEATING.

How does the world see me? Garbage - Cup Of Coffee
The world see me as Garbage? Garbage because I talk a lot of rubbish? Oh wait, the instructions said to use Song Title as the answer.

Cup Of Coffee coz I am a bitter person and yet addictive? Can't start the day without me or do I keep you up all night?

Will I have a happy life? Michelle Branch - Are You Happy Now?
How about that? To answer a question with another question? "Will I have a happy life" points to the future but does it have to start with me being happy now?

Well, while I am not 100% happy for now, it doesn't mean that I can't get on with my life and not strive for a happier life in the future.

What do my friends really think of me? Lisa Stansfield - Boyfriend


Do people secretly lust after me? Lisa Stansfield - All Around The World
To Lisa Stanfield song back to back in "Shuffle Mode". What are the chances? This was the next song that showed up right after the previous song. Wah piangz!!

Anyway, I shan't elaborate on this. I said too much already. 

How can I make myself happy?
Madonna - American Pie

Good food and good company makes me happy. So, anyone for a simple burger, ladened with foie gras and truffles, with me?

What should I do with my life? Hed Kandi - Back To Us

"Us" as in USA? Migrate to US when I retire?

Or "Us" as in you and me? In other words, after all the running all over the place trying to make a living, perhaps it is back to home at the end of the day. Anyone for Tiger beer and peanuts at the void deck? I am sure the police won't take down our names and write letter to our parents when we loiter then.

Will I ever have children? Communards - Don't Leave Me This Way
Hmm... don't really know what to make of this answer? Anyone to offer any insight?

What is some good advice for me? Kim Marsh - Cry
Trust me, you will feel better after that. Don't pent it up. Bad for health.

How will I be remembered? Mya - Case Of The Ex
Aiyoh.... of all songs to show up next!

What is my signature dancing song? Garbage - Drive You Home
Your home or mine? wahahaah....

What do I think my current theme song is? David Usher - Black Black Heart
Who me black black heart? I protest!! I got heart one meh? whahahahaa

What does everyone else think my current theme song is? Europe - Carrie
I think it I do meet a person by the name of Carrie when I head up to Marseilles next month, I am so going to buy 4D.

What song will play at my funeral? Men At Work - Down Under
Very apt song title? No?

What type of men/women do I like? Elvis Presley - Burning Love
Oh yeah, baby. Let's get HAWT!!!

What is my day going to be like? Kelly Clarkson - A Moment Like This
I firmly believe that a day is wasted if you don't make an effort to capture all the little moments that make up the day. Hence this blog.

Bloggers to tag this to:

King Meng
Sunflower (Let's see what you got in that Zen Vision M)

- Voxeros

1. kim left...
Tuesday, 25 April 2006 9:34 am
Cup of coffee 'cause you keep me up all night?!?!?!?! Muahahaha..
I think hor, the songs on your player know you too well. Esp for Do people secretly lust after me ques. Hahaha.. No. I don't lust after you. So that's one person less from the people around the world.

2. JayWalk left...
Tuesday, 25 April 2006 12:52 pm ::
kim: Definitely not you coz we are from different planets.
Besides, the answer to the question before that "What do my friends really think of me?" for your boy boy would have been
Garbage - Bad Boyfriend

3. aloe left...
Wednesday, 26 April 2006 8:51 am
alamak... the songs in my player mostly cheena songs leh.... :S

4. winter left...
Wednesday, 26 April 2006 12:57 pm
ur answers very funny hor..
want to kena twist ears again is it?? :P

5. koreanhousewife left...
Wednesday, 26 April 2006 1:33 pm ::
Hey Mister DJ,
How come U wrote: Bloggers to tag this to: and my nick was mentioned? U totally lost me. Enlighten please. Anyway the top 10 songs on my playlist at itune are below. And I think I am drivin all my co workers crazy cos I keep repeatin them:P
1. Here without you (3 doors down) 2. Someehere only we know (Keane) 3. Ever the same (Rob Thomas) 4. All songs by Jay Chou!!! 5. Each Time (East17) DONT LAUGH!!! I PINCHED U!!! 6. Tears and Rain (James Blunt) 7. Pray (Take That) DONT LAUGH!!! I PINCHED U!!! 8. Have you ever needed someone (Def Leppard) 9. In my place (Coldplay) 10. Speed of sound (Coldplay)

6. Jaslyn left...
Wednesday, 26 April 2006 1:53 pm ::
Huh? After writing down the song title and singer, still have to write explanation ah??

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Wednesday, 26 April 2006 3:40 pm

8. Jaschocolate left...
Wednesday, 26 April 2006 10:25 pm
It takes a meme to get AKK to blog.. dot dot dot..

9. Jaslyn left...
Wednesday, 26 April 2006 10:53 pm ::
Ok! I've done it!

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Thursday, 27 April 2006 2:31 am ::
I like your "Garbage - Cup of Coffee" .... very you. Same for "Down under".
Well, I would interpret the cup of coffee as, not bitter but more addictive and alluring...
Thanks for giving me the face to do the meme!

11. JayWalk left...
Thursday, 27 April 2006 4:12 am ::
Winter: I used to it liao. Ear no more feeling liao. wahahaha....

KoreanHouseWife: alamak, you always LOST one. Tag you means asking you to do the meme on your own blog lah.

Jaslyn: Read the instructions again closely, you are supposed to use the song to tie your answer to it. Oh wait. I see that you've done it. Nevermind.

Akk: Read liao! Poison - Madison Garden. WAahahahaha!!

Jaschocolate: So now you know. Next time kena meme again, sure shoot AKK one.

Jettykey: Anything for you, dear. Just glad to have you back.

12. KingMeng left...
Thursday, 27 April 2006 11:23 pm ::
Cool, I got tagged...will do it tml. :D

13. JayWalk left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 6:11 pm :: 
KingMeng: You better do ok! First on my list some more!

25 April 2006

The 22-Questions Meme.

1. My ex is: er.... which one? Too many to write lah. hahahahah

2. Maybe I should: walk away from it all.

3. I love: the look on my opponent's face when I drive that tennis ball with a backhand down-the-line passing shot.

4. I don't understand: why people here cannot be trusted.

5. I lose: my freedom in the name of filial piety

6. People say I'm: killer. Not going to elaborate on that! :P

7. Love is: when your kid hugs you from out of nowhere.

8. Somewhere, someone is: looking for his/her big break. I am still looking for mine.

9. I will always: remember those who bailed us out and those who ditched us. Justice will be served. It's only a matter of time.

10. Forever is: the feeling you get when you are stuck in a traffic jam with a full bladder.

11. I never want to: let my kids take the kind of crap that I am receiving now.

12. I think the current US President: is an idiot and an embarrassment to the American people.

13. When I wake up in the morning: I want to go back to sleep.

14. My past was: something to serve as a reference/reminder against future mistakes.

15. I get annoyed when: stupid people do or say the stupidest thing.

16. Parties are for: me to go cheong.

17. My dog is: a Pekingese.

18. My cat is: roaming the corridors of NTU Hall 4 and answers to the name of Whisky. I used to share my Black Label with him.

19. Kisses are the best when: it's from the heart.

20. Tomorrow: will be the day, I have difficulty waking up again.

21. I really want: to be a teacher.

22. I have low tolerance for people who: have the brains but CHOOSE to fucking not use it.

- Voxeros

1. Jaschoc left...
Monday, 24 April 2006 12:46 pm
Teacher? Will die one..

2. Lynne left...
Tuesday, 25 April 2006 1:29 am
I am curious about #5 ... Can elaborate or not?

3. JayWalk left...
Tuesday, 25 April 2006 1:37 am :: 
Jaschocolate: Who die? Me or the students? wahahahah....

Lynne: I am running and slated to take over the family business which is why I am in Ch1na. Not something that I would do if I had been given a choice. Catch ball?

4. aloe left...
Tuesday, 25 April 2006 8:30 am
ah... i so agree with No. 13 and 22.....

5. JayWalk left...
Tuesday, 25 April 2006 12:13 pm :: 
Anna: I see you also another Nua-In-Bed expert! :)

6. mht left...
Tuesday, 25 April 2006 4:44 pm
with regards to #5, like what they say in Da Chang Jin...think of the 'jia zhu'

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Tuesday, 25 April 2006 5:42 pm ::
1. My ex is: NA.
2. Maybe I should: book a plane ticket to Perth. Tats my healing ground when I need isolation.
3. I love: to be a winner. But also understand tat sometimes winning can be losing.
4. I don't understand: korean language but wish to be a korean house wife.
5. I lose: my faith in most local men.
6. People say I'm: a great tease. Many try to tame me but failed. They cried: I really don't know how to pamper U!
7. Love is: so close yet so far away. The heart is a lonely hunter.
8. Somewhere, someone is: thinkin and waitin for me. But I have not given him the green light to contact me. I am not ready to talk.
9. I will always: be a good girl unless we are in bed.
10. Forever is: in fairytale. We are not prince and princess to begin with.
11. I never want to: be in the rat race, but my name is on the list.
12. I think the current US President: a slim shady.
13. When I wake up in the morning: I check my SMS.
14. My past was: gone with the wind. I hardly cling on to the past.
15. I get annoyed when: people expect me to save the day and be superwoman. I get tired too.
16. Parties are for: Models and beautiful people. I just sit at a corner, slip fruit punch and blend into the wallpaper.
17. My dog is: NA
18. My cat is: NA (chant a millions time: Hair grow longer, cats are evil!
19. Kisses are the best when: U made me taste warmed honey.
20. Tomorrow: I might be gone
21. I really want: to hide in a pair of big strong arms. Lets not speak for a min.
22. I have low tolerance for people who: try to weasel their way out at work.

8. JayWalk left...
Tuesday, 25 April 2006 11:44 pm ::
mht: Yah. I think it's the ch1nese Confucius upbringing that made me stay. Arh bor, like the ang mohs, I would have been long gone.

KoreanHouseWife: Hey! Do it on your own blog!!! >.<

9. koreanhousewife left...
Wednesday, 26 April 2006 9:46 am ::
Donald Trump,
Dont U dare give me tat SOUR PLUM face! * Pinch U then U know! Anyway, I got a letter from the MOE. So U apply to be teacher ar? Sorri, I tot the letter is for me and moi read it:P Nah, pass back to U!
Dear Sir,
I regret to inform U tat yr application to teach in Spore will not be consider by MOE. Please do not try applying again as this is the final decision made by the panel of board at MOE. We die die also don't wanna bring U on board!
After readin abt more abt U, we concluded:
1. U are too handsome to teach. (tis has been re-enforce in yr point:6....People say Im killer. Not going to elaborate on tat. U did attach yr pix for our reference and I must say U are berri YAN DAO. I believe if U were to secure a place in teacher. The female students will be distracted by yr look. They will do daily day dreams and I wont be surprise if they want U to: Spank Me! There will also be a high chance tat they will be willing to leave behind their virginity and innocence. Thus will create other social problems (eg abortion)...
2. Parties ate for: me to go cheong. Given yr gd wit and high EQ and U are a people person. I believe the male student will love to chill out with U. God knows where U will bring them to cheong. I can also visualize U sharin MP3 with them and maybe even exchangin pirated VCD! Ha! To are too fun to hang out with, I am not sure if U are a teachin material more over U dont believe in using the rod!
3. I have low tolerance for people who: have the brains but choose to fucking not use it. I hate to admit, a great deal of students in Spore. Love day dream abt being SUPER STAR and Spore idol. So they might be the death of U, cos not one will listen when U teach. Also a great number of them love makin their own PORNO video. Tis is gettin out of hand! Who knows they might tempt U to be a male lead in those HP video! Danger! U better not join cos U too yan dao!
4. "Oh no! The King just lost big money on last night's Man-U match. The King is going to jump the building!" Terrible! I can visualized wat kind of teachin material U prepare!
So I reckon U should keep yr job as a business man. U are a brilliant strategist, a clever bargainer and manipulator. With yr guile and cleverness, U should stay PUT.
Kind Regards, MOE

10. JayWalk left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 5:28 pm ::
KoreanHouseWife: Logically speaking, MOE will never send to wrong address one and so that letter was really meant for you.
As such,
Dear Madam,
I regret to inform U tat yr application to teach in Spore will not be consider by MOE. Please do not try applyin again as tis is the final decision made by the panel of board at MOE. We die die also dont wanna bring U on board!
After readin abt more abt U, we concluded:
1. U are too chio to teach. The male students will be distracted by yr look. They will do daily day dreams and I wont be surprise if they want U to: Spank Me! There will also be a high chance tat they will be willing to leave behind their virginity and innocence. Thus will create other social problems (OCD Wanking)...
2. Parties are for: me to go cheong. Given yr gd wit and high EQ and U are a people person. I believe the male student will love to chill out with U. God knows where U will bring them to cheong. I can also visualize U sharin MP3 with them and maybe even exchangin pirated VCD! Ha! To are too fun to hang out with, I am not sure if U are a teachin material more over U dont believe in using the rod on them except on yourself!
3. I have low tolerance for people who: have the brains but choose to fucking not use it. I hate to admit, a great deal of students in Spore. Love day dream abt being SUPER STAR and Spore idol. So they might be the death of U, cos not one will listen when U teach. Also a great number of them love makin their own PORNO video. Tis is gettin out of hand! Who knows they might tempt U to be a female lead in those HP video! Danger! U better not join cos U too HAWT!
4. "Oh no! The King just lost big money on last night's Man-U match. The King is going to jump the building!" Terrible! I can visualized wat kind of teachin material JayWalk is influencing U to prepare!
So I reckon U should keep yr job as a slave driver. U are a brilliant strategist, a clever bargainer and manipulator. With yr guile and cleverness, U should stay PUT on that nice  little high chair of yours.
Kind Regards, MOE

11. koreanhousewife left...
Saturday, 29 April 2006 8:12 pm ::
Aiyooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. Well Done!

12. JayWalk left...
Saturday, 29 April 2006 8:39 pm ::
KoreanHouseWife: Ahh... thank you... thank you very much. *curtsy*

13. koreanhousewife left...
Sunday, 30 April 2006 8:11 am
*throw confetti at U* U never fail to amaze me.

14. JayWalk left...
Sunday, 30 April 2006 4:56 pm ::
KoreanHouseWife: :)

15. koreanhousewife left...
Sunday, 30 April 2006 5:26 pm
;) (Double wink!)

24 April 2006

Why My Vote Matters - A Dialogue With Minister Mentor Lee Kuan Yew

My apologies if I am writing this so late after the program was aired but given the fact that I am not in Singapore and as such have no access to home television, this is as good as it gets already.

Anyway, here are my views on this.

First stop, how come all 10 of these youngster's Engerand all so powderful one har? Where are the Ah Bengs, Ah Sengs, Ah Lians and Ah Huays? I believe they form a significant percentage of our young demographics. In a way, it seemed like they are not being represented leh. I would certainly like to see how they interact with MM Lee and vice versa. Anyway, I supposed that Pearl Maria Forss is a representative of the Eurasian race but did anyone see a Malay or Indian in that panel? Why were they not represented? This surely must be a gaff on the part of the program producers. No?

Ok, without further ado, it's on with the show!

The topic of GRCs was being brought up in the dialogue. In my earlier post, I indicated that I favoured a 1-to-1 fight format but I have to concede that under the circumstances, we run the risk of having a full house of Chinese male MPs at the expense of the minority groups and the female gender. So, I appreciate the fact that the Gahmen openly admitted that they shifted the goal post but I have to admit that it is not exactly a bad idea to do so. I supposed each have their own merits.

Still, I am damn buay song about the fact that the format of GRCs will allow the loophole of getting candidates voted in under radar or as some folks like to say, "come in via the backdoor".

Perhaps a compromise of the 2 formats is in order here. If I may be humbly suggest retaining the GRC format in order to ensure we can get women and candidates of the minority race in. Thereafter, the winning GRC team shall undergo a second round referendum whereby each individual candidate needs to secure at least 50% of the "Yes" votes? Granted, this will create extra burden on the logistics but think about it, isn't the extra hassle here worth the effort as it gives the people more power to scrutinise each and every candidate properly? Then and only then would people be totally convinced that the candidates are who they want to represent them instead of a situation where we get in 4 to 5 idiots for the sake of retaining that 1 gem in that GRC?

Disrespectful to MM Lee
The media and forums has a blast of a time bashing these youngster for not giving MM Lee enough respect by fielding questions bordering on impertinence and interrupting when MM Lee is speaking. Bor Dua Bor Sweh seemed to be the impression that everybody is getting. I robustly disagree with that and I feel that these youngsters need to be defended here.

I have watched MM Lee answering question and at times, it is hard to tell whether MM Lee has finished with his response or not. Don't forget, this was a dialogue between MM Lee and 10 persons. Everybody was jostling to field the next question. You hesitate for a split second and someone will beat you to the next question. Hence, one must understand that it was only natural for the youngsters to be over anxious and jumped the gun, in their attempt to throw the next question.

MM Lee was obviously aware of this fact and hence what you saw was a man who politely said "Wait, let me finish." or something to that effect. Did anyone see any signs of displeasure from MM Lee when he was interrupted? No, right? Then why should the rest of the folks be upset about it?

My view in this matter is that this is the way our youngster speak and I can assure you that none of them were being disrespectful. They all knew who MM Lee was and what he has done for this Country. If MM Lee didn't understand this, then perhaps the Gahmen of which, MM Lee represents, is totally disconnected from our youths. Should that happen, PAP will no longer be in power when the time comes, when these youngsters would replace the older generations and form the majority of the electorate. Mark my words.

Straits Times Journalist - Ken Kwek
Ken made the mistake of shooting off his mouth before engaging his brain. He made the statement that the "hundreds of people" he interviewed indicated that they were afraid to vote against the PAP.

MM Lee was right to take him to task on this statement.

From "we talked to hundreds of voters", it was shot down to "a hundred voters" to "I personally interviewed 40" to "some of the 40 said 'I better not say'" and in the end, Ken finally conceded that he couldn't substantiate that fact that there was at least ONE who said that he/she was afraid of voting against the PAP.

"You are a Straits Times man... purveying unnecessary falsehood..." quoted MM Lee and I couldn't agree more.

How often do we find the bladdy media quoting people out of context for the sake of sensationalising the article in order to garner a few more readership? We kena a number of unhappy episodes earlier with a few of our fellow bloggers and then the more recent Khaw Boon Wan being quoted out of context.

Sadly but I must say that our media is of MickeyMouse-class at best. Oh wait, that would be insulting MickeyMouse. Sorry Mickey!

I sincerely hope that Ken will take MM Lee's dressing down as a valuable lesson. Yes, he made a very embarrassing boo boo on national TV but I hope he takes that in a positive light. Learn from the mistake, apply the lesson taught and hopefully, we will have a reporter of a better calibre in the near future.

Unlevel Playing Field
Aiyoh... this Lee Ching Wern is soooo cute! She is like this dole-eyed Bambi of a granddaughter that would make any Grandpa melt.

I have to agree with MM Lee's straight logic on a few issues here.

1) PAP will never make it easy for the opponents to take a shot at them. This is simple straight forward logic. Who would want to shoot themselves in the foot?

2) PAP has taken all the good people and leaving the opposition with none. Eh, this type of thing takes 2 hands to clap one lah. How can you blame the PAP if a quality potential candidate don't want to join your team? Rather than crying foul that they snatch the potential candidate from you, why not ask yourself why is it that you are not able to persuade this potential candidate to join you?

3) I am happy to hear MM Lee say that ALL constituencies will be upgraded. Just that the opposition ones will be at the end of the queue. I am fine with that and I can understand why this is so. However, what I want to ask is what is taking them so long to even get near to the opposition wards? This upgrading projects has been going on for years. Surely for a country as efficient as Singapore, it would have been Potong Pasir's or Hougang's turn by now? Hmm.... what's that sound I hear? Is it the sound of feet dragging?

Kor Kian Beng
If one were to pick the culprit who was No Big No Small to MM Lee, surely the finger must point to this chap. Suggesting that "power-crazy PAP"'s MM Lee retire? Oh the audacity! Quick we must tie this young punk up and TIAK his lam par!

Seriously, I'd bet he is not the only one with this nagging question in his head. I am sure a lot of people out there has the same question but are afraid and/or no chance to ask. For one, I applaud him for having the balls (no pun intended) to actually ask it out loud. MM Lee should thank this chap for fielding this question for it gives him the opportunity of finally addressing this issue in the open and put these doubts to rest.

I for one is convinced that MM Lee should stick around and contribute for as long as he can.

Finally, last but not least.

My Most Burning Question.
The girl in pink seated in the front row, first left. Er.... did anyone catch her speak? Aiyoh.... potted plant!!
- Voxeros

1. Jaschocolate left...
Sunday, 23 April 2006 1:28 pm
Sorry, i didnt bother watching... i am biased and against PAP.. but don't really mind who is the one in charge since there is no one else that seemed capable of overtaking them..

2. JayWalk left...
Sunday, 23 April 2006 10:42 pm :: 
Jaschocolate: Well not for me. I actually do think that PAP is doing a good job for the country. Just that there are the little things that I thought can be done to have a more convincing victory.

3. aloe left...
Monday, 24 April 2006 9:15 am
I din watch too. Only saw bits and pieces. But I was thinking, where did they find these groups of people from? Was there an open invitation to the public to ask questions of our leaders in public? not that I could see... So that means that they have selected these people based on what? hmm.... Btw, there was another dialogue session before this with LHsienL.

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Monday, 24 April 2006 4:29 pm
That's why the glass can be either half full or half empty...if u get what i mean..

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Monday, 24 April 2006 5:32 pm :: 
Anna: The impression that I get was that this program was mooted at the very last minute and done with a make-shift selection of panelist. Hence the huge number of journalist.
Doesn't really give a good representation of that generation's Joe Average. Still, it is better than nothing and MM Lee did get the opportunity to clear the air on a couple of issues.

Jaschocolate: No I'm afraid I don't get what you mean. Care to elaborate?

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Monday, 24 April 2006 6:32 pm
I don't keep in touch with Spore politics anymore but I've got my gripes. But all in all, Spore is a safe and developed country so I can see why Sporeans rather have PAP than some other unknown party. At the end of the day, the saying goes, "better a devil you know than a devil you do not know".

I think it's very very unique how spore has got a Minister Mentor - aka LKY. I wonder if this will continue into the future when somewhere along the line, the PAP leadership by the Lee's isn't strong and prominent as it is now.

Anyhow, I think you did a great job summarising the program for me and giving me the commentaries. I thoroughly enjoyed the post. I agree that the Ah Bengs and Lians should have a voice in this too. But, the normal Sporeans aren't exactly voiceful so maybe they may just be a potted plant. The media have to choose the people that are unhappy with the govt and you think the Lians and Bengs would care very much about abt those topics?

7. kim left...
Monday, 24 April 2006 7:05 pm
actually hor, I think it takes alot of guts to speak to the MM like what they were doing. And if given the opportunity, I would seize it 'cause I think he has alot of insights to loads of stuff. A 50min dialogue isnt enough. Can I have him as my ah gong for a day? haha..

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Monday, 24 April 2006 7:08 pm
Haiz... like there will be different opinions when two different ppl viewed one thing.. I may see it only in the bad way while u see it in the good way.. whatever.. i am super blur today.. *throw face*

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Monday, 24 April 2006 10:22 pm
I'm probably going to get lynched for saying this, but I think alot of Singaporeans (the younger generation, especially) don't really know what they are missing until they leave Singapore. Sure, there are always gripes about whichever country, town, city, town council you live in - life is not perfect. It's about how fair it's perceived, and yes some of the points re GRC are fair issues which the government has to consider. Other accusations (like 'many people scared to vote for PAP etcetc') are completely unfounded, and probably for very superficial reasons. Hence, I completely don't get it when young people say things like "I'm against the PAP" - is there a grounded reason for that? If so, what is it? Are people against the PAP only because it's 'cool' to be against it? Or because they have genuine gripe? Or because they have 'nothing else to say'?

Everytime I go home, I feel like I end up defending the government for some of the decisions they make. Obviously, I chose to live in the UK and am making a rather decent living out of it, but there are plenty more burning issues that this country is dealing with, which the Singapore govt has avoided, through good government, and good leadership.
I think those who complain about the PAP and the government ought to try living in another 'democracy' and perhaps gain a better insight into where and how our government is succeeding when other bigger, older nations have failed.

This 'dialogue' was theoretically a good idea, perhaps ought to be better thought through next time, with substantiated, substantial questions, less 'hear-say', and perhaps a moderator. The 'journalists' weren't very experienced, and were coming across as 'grandchildren' asking 'grandad' "eh, why like dat ah?", without rhyme or reason.

10. JayWalk left...
Tuesday, 25 April 2006 1:59 am :: 
Mum2One: I can assure you that the 10 youngsters are not your typical Singaporean.
Let me tell you what a typical Singaporean would look like on that program.
Each will be avoiding eye contact with MM Lee while looking at eachother, hoping that the other fella will speak instead of himself/herself.
If there was a visual aid like OHP or powerpoint, you can bet your last dollar, they will be furiously scribbling notes. Hah!

Jaschocolate: Ok, I get what you mean liao pertaining to Glass Half Empty vs Glass Half Full vs Oi! Glass Wrong Size Lah!

SALlie: I can't agree more. One of the most effective way to see the good that PAP has done for this country is to go to one of these so-called "democracy" country and trying walking down the quiet street in the middle of the night.
As for being cool to be against the PAP, I think not that jialat lah. I personally have not heard anyone saying that they are against the PAP for whatever reason. Well, 'cept for Jaschocolate.

Jaschocolate: Let me throw you a question.
Why are you biased against the PAP?

11. aloe left...
Tuesday, 25 April 2006 8:35 am
well... that's why this sentence always comes up.... The grass is greener on the other side. LOL!! People would always think that someone somewhere someplace is better than where they currently are now, until they personally experienced the differences.

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Tuesday, 25 April 2006 12:34 pm ::
Anna: True. True. Perhaps the Gahmen should encourage its citizens to go out and see more of the world in order to look back and see ourselves better.

13. Mum2One left...
Tuesday, 25 April 2006 2:00 pm
In my humble opinion, you've got to fit a certain mold to be utterly sold out to the PAP. It's a mold I personally do not fit in, but I know of many who do and are happy with the Sporean lifestyle (ie. the PAP type of govt) and culture that it promotes. It's got it's good and it's bad, like every govt and country. Cultures and values differ from society to society so people are drawn to whichever country they prefer but there's no perfect place just which suits you better. The minority will just have to ship out or keep trying to get a bigger voice (more numbers on their side).

In a true democracy, everyone should have a fair say in things, no matter how stupid or wrong. Everyone counts and has the right to have a voice - it's the bill of right that is owed to all. That has it's downside but at the end of the day, the good outweighs the bad. The majority voice rules but the minority should never be eliminated or be treated poorly for voting against the govt coz that will no longer be true democracy.

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Tuesday, 25 April 2006 6:05 pm
I think true democracy can only happen when the citizens of the country are competent (mature, intelligent, see the bigger picture etc) enough to deal with democracy. It is idealistic to say we want democracy when the people concerned cannot cope with the responsibilities of democracy. With freedom comes responsibility and accountability... and frankly, I'm not sure the majority of Singaporeans are ready for that yet.
As I read somewhere, Singapore is still a very young country and we've only had 3 generations of 'Singaporeans'? We need to formulate our own culture, our own idiosyncracies and our own sense of pride. We have definitely reached far, and much further than say other similar sized nations (or similar-aged nations), and we should be proud of that. We should however, continue to grow intellectually and hopefully grow out of the rather immature levels of politics that we were exposed to in that conversation with the MM.
It would be really interesting to see what people mean when they say that they are against the PAP. I am completely aware that the PAP can be high-handed in dealing with some situations in the past (or even nowadays) but in general I would say that most of their decisions have been made in favour for the majority of the country, or for the benefit of the majority. All my opinion of course.

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Tuesday, 25 April 2006 7:27 pm
Dont know.........

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Tuesday, 25 April 2006 11:42 pm :: 
Mum2One & SALlie: You both are absolutely right. It not like we are living in an autocratic/oppressed society.
More like we as Singaporean are not ready to handle full democracy. In due time, we will but for now, we still need the Gahmen to treat us like little children.
I supposed we are slowly entering the teenage phase where the rebellious streak is starting to emerge.

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Wednesday, 26 April 2006 9:14 am
If I am not wrong, 15-20 years ago, oppositions (like Jeyeratnam and this other chinese doctorade guy) were either attacked for their personal background & characters and put to jail for saying things that the PAP has made it illegal to say publicly. That to me takes away the people's right of freedom of speech and therefore loses the real fundamentals of democracy. Freedom of speech is an integral part of true democracy and it has no bearing on how mature an individual is (look at Australia's Pauline Hanson for instance) or culturally developed a country has to be. The media in Spore is pretty much controlled by the government and much is censored or politically wrong to voice about unless it is in a very controlled environment that the PAP feels it will do them good than bad. That's not fair ground.

However, I do believe that for Spore to enjoy the prosperity and security of the country the way PAP has maintained the last 40 years, then Sporeans might have to sacrifice true democracy and maybe lots more which forms the Sporean culture. That's for the people of Spore to choose. What does PAP have to fear? Majority of Sporeans will vote them because they fear the unknown and the possibility of losing that security and prosperity, partly PAP instilled fear, and partly human nature. I believe for a country to have a rich culture and history, it has to be tested. Will and does the PAP allow that? I don't know.

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Wednesday, 26 April 2006 6:11 pm
Freedom of speech is the people's right - yes. What I'm alluding to is the assumption that these people are mature enough to handle this right, and subsequent consequences, ie. take responsibility. A child has the right to say whatever he or she wants - however as parents, we feel that we have to curtail their freedom sometimes (e.g. when they learn inappropriate words through the TV or on the playground). Same goes for the PAP and its citizens.

That was the attitude that was adopted 40 odd years ago when Singapore became independent and unfortunately (or not), it appears that little has changed. hence why the current generation isn't too pleased about this lack of freedom, lack of supposed 'democracy' and so on - some of them have seen 'freedom' and 'democracy' at work in foreign countries that they've studied in, and think that they can import such ideals to Singapore.

Some of these things might work (e.g. the government's opening up to adult-theme drama, theatre; table-top dancing in pubs etcetc) but there will always be people who will complain; either that it's not 'open' enough or, it's 'too open' and not appropriate for our 'eastern culture'. We'll need to find a balance of all this - People from the East tend to view Singaporeans as very westernised (sometimes, too westernised), and people from the West still find it interesting that Singaporeans cling on to being 'eastern'. So we'll need to find out own identity.

Of course the people of Singapore are choosing now, what they want, what they don't want. Some are misguided by 'the short experiences they've had in other countries'; others have better ideas as to what we can tolerate at the moment. The government's role in this is to mediate, consult and introduce them where necessary. It can be tested, it's a case of when, and whether we're ready. the PAP obviously thinks we are ready for some things; probably not ready for most of the onslaught that those grandchildren on the tv assumed we were.

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Wednesday, 26 April 2006 9:04 pm
Sallie, but why are the citizens treated like children when they should be treated as adults when they are!! Why is the PAP given the power to parent over them and to determine for them when they should be ready for true democracy? The government of a democratic soceity is elected by the people, and for the people. Does that mean then the problem lies with the citizens for relinquishing their rights to be treated as children by the PAP and treating PAP like god? That I think is giving the government more power than it should have which is to represent the people, not to be big brother or parents to the citizens. A majority of Singaporean still like that big brother style though. They prefer someone else to think for them - maybe that's what you're referring to.

The way I see it, the younger generations are questioning this perceived and relinquished authority that have been given the PAP. I say, that's what a healthy mature adult should do. A child will never be able to think for themselves if they're not given the chance to learn how to. A country is not going to learn the responsibility of true democracy if they are not allowed or are too afraid to learn from their choices.

Censorship on TV is not only on liberty of the arts and decency, but on what is discussed about the government and the issues pertaining to their policies. Anything that makes a din to their highly controlled environment is shot down through all sorts of ways.

What needs to be tested for the country to have a real sense of identity, is the maturity of the people and the fairplay of democracy in Singapore. With the tight control that PAP has, that is not going to happen in the near future. But that's ok, because that's what the people wants at this point in time and like you said, maybe they are not ready for that kind of testing yet thus the power that PAP has on Spore.

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Wednesday, 26 April 2006 9:29 pm
Mum2One, I agree with you that the citizens appear to be treated like children when actually they ought to be seen as adults and treated as such. However, you need to consider the fact that Singapore is really, only 40 years old. Compared to the US, UK, Australia, and most other countries, we are really, still babies.

Don't you think that in many ways, the citizens DO relinquish their rights when they demand that the government provide for alot of the things that we take for granted? and Yes, I do think that a majority of Singaporeans prefer that someone else thinks for them, because that way, when something goes wrong, that someone else is to be blamed, not the citizens.

Of course, I agree with you that the younger generation is now questioning this perceived complete authority that the PAP has - and rightly so. It's what I said in a couple of posts before, that we have come quite far and we ought to be proud of it. It's now high time that we hone in this ability to stand on our own two feet and decide what we want; but we need to make a substantial case about it. It's not at all ok, or mature or clever to stomp our feet and say 'i want it this way' and have no solution or idea as to how to get there. and frankly, that's what the younger generation are saying, alot of the time. As you saw on this blog, a particular person said that she didn't know why she was 'against' the PAP. that unfortunately tars the 'younger' generation and gives the impression that really we are protesting coz we want to be seen to have an opinion, but really, we don't have one, or worse, we don't really know why we hold such an opinion. that's sad.

Unfortunately, in this unfair world that we live in, we can't have things both ways. We can't expect to have a 'true democracy' and then not be accountable when things go wrong. We can't expect to have 'freedom of speech' and little racism/religious fanaticism etcetc. We can't have it both ways. Singapore has chosen rightly or wrongly, to do things this way. A majority of the people are satisfied. And I think that's what good governance means.

With regards to what you say about for the country to have a sense of identity we need to have mature people...I agree with you - and that was what I said. What I then said was, we need to then demonstrate we are mature. not sheep.. and worse, not ignorant sheep.

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Thursday, 27 April 2006 4:36 am ::
Mum2One & SALlie: Man, try digesting your exchanges with a jet-lag!!
Here's what I have to say after traveling 20+ hours on the plane.
Gahmen are treating us like children is because we are behaving like children. Until the day where we can step up and behave like mature adult, then the Gahmen will slowly ease the grip.

In fact, this has been happening even as we speak as the gahmen slowly unbans chewing gum, Cosmopolitian magazine. R-rated movies are allowed into the theatres.
We are certainly moving forward albeit not overnight.
As for Pauline Hanson. If idiots like Hanson is a result of the so called "Freedom Of Speech", I say please take it away from me, please.

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Thursday, 27 April 2006 4:35 pm
agreed, Jay - my point exactly. Singaporeans aren't as matured as they like to think they are. minority maybe, deffo not the majority. and yes, Pauline Hanson - hmm...not quite my role model in aiming for freedom of speech and rights!! LOL.

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Thursday, 27 April 2006 7:58 pm
Sallie and Jay, I understand where you're coming from.
The political career of Pauline Hanson is a good example of what I'm trying to get across. She is an example of your uneducated and ignorant citizen (I believe she's matured a bit since her debut in the political arena) with a gripe and daring enough to voice it.

Eventhough what she had to say was silly to a lot of people and racist even, the democratic system is mature enough to let people like her voice their opinion and gather moss even (she had quite a few supporters!).

But the system also knows that if that's not what the majority stands for, all that hoola boola will eventually be a thing of the past, which is what her party is now. Now that's maturity. It's having the confidence in the citizens and the sytem that justice will prevail (not necessarily all the time but majority of the time this will).

She seemed to have learnt from her past and may even make a come back in the political arena. I"m sure her supporters would have learnt something from it all too. The point is, she was allowed speak and the citizens were allowed to make their own conclusions on whether or not she is credible and time will tell.

She knew she was never going to be the Prime Minister and to be able to get into government, because the majority wouldn't be on her side, but she was a voice to a group of people in Australia that wanted to be heard. She represented a small group of Australians. And in a country of 27million or so people, that happens to be quite a few.
What I'm also trying to get across is that having a voice doesn't mean you have to have it altogether. It just means, you want to be heard because somewhere along the line, you've experienced injustice.

From what Sallie is saying, yes, Sporeans need to know what they want and what they stand for before they speak. My question is, how can they if they've been spoon fed all the time? My child is allowed to feed himself eventhough he makes an awful mess at every mealtime. That's how he's going to learn. Treat a child like a child and he'll act like a child. Treat a child like an adult and he'll eventually know how to act like an adult. Sporeans are partly the way they are because they've been too protected and controlled by the government in what they can and cannot do. So it's a vicious cycle-ie. they then relinquish their rights to the government who then promotes powerlessness to the citizens.

Chewing gum, cosmopolitan magazine and r-rated movies are nothing... why aren't the people asking for their right to freedom of speech is what I am thinking! It's like selling their souls for chewing gum, cosmo mags and r-rated movie! I feel stifled for them but they're happy. At the end of the day, that's what matters, that they are happy.

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Thursday, 27 April 2006 8:41 pm :: 
Mum2One: Between Pauline Hanson and Dubya Bush, the latter is the lesser of 2 evils.
So you can let the child eat on his own and him making a mess of it in the process. The problem with this Singapore child is that when things gets messy, the child will blame the parent for getting him into this mess.

Hence the gahmen spoonfeeding and over-mothering. Again, I reiterate my point that until the day the Singapore child grows up to learn to take responsibility for his own action, there is no way the gahmen will let go.

As unpleasant and stifling as that may sound, again, I say, it's the lesser of 2 evils.

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Thursday, 27 April 2006 9:31 pm
Mum2One, I understand what you are trying to get, and frankly, I think we'll have to agree that it's a chicken and egg situation - which came first? I am saying that the citizens need to be mature first before the reins can be let go (Jay seems to be saying the same thing) are saying that we need to let go the reins, and then let them mature.

The UK has it's own version of Pauline Hanson. They call it the British National Party...basically people who support the dare-I-Say neo-Nazi attitude of we only want White people in Britain because that's what British people are, white. And they are gaining support in pockets of society. God forbid the day they ever enter the mainstream government. But hey, parts of Europe are getting quite xenophobic and we're not talking Eastern Europe.

You are suggesting that the citizens will be mature enough to decide for themselves... I beg to differ, especially the younger generation, especially when they make groundless statements like "I am against the PAP....but I don't know why". Until the majority of the citizens KNOW WHY they are against the PAP and have reasonable solutions, I don't really see the situation changing. And I don't see why it should.

As for the unbanning of chewing gum, cosmo and R-rated movies, hey, we gotta start somewhere! Frankly, in London, when you have dried up chewing gum on the pavement, on the tubes, buses and so on, you'll be quite thankful that in Singapore they've banned it. Of course, we can go on to the next topic of 'upbringing' and so on, but that's for another day. FYI, the cost of cleaning the streets of chewing gum costs the taxpayers a hell of a lot of money. and we already pay 40% tax, excluding health and pension.

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Friday, 28 April 2006 5:10 pm :: 
SALlie: I say mature first then let go coz we can be for sure that if we let go first, they would have enough time to mature without self destructing first.
Chewing gum is a very good example and I supported it. If the people don't know how to dispose of a chewing properly, then by all means take it away until they figure it out.
You don't just give your car keys to your 12 year kid until he has grown up and pass the driver's test right?
How's that if you were just give them the keys right away and let them figure out to drive at the tender age of 12?
Let me ask you another question:
Given the internet access gets you everywhere? Does it still make sense to ban pronography in Singapore? Pointless already right?
While the ban was originally created to keep children away, now it seemed that it is ony keeping all the ah peks and ah sohs away since they're the only one left who dunno "how to use" the internet.

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Friday, 28 April 2006 5:16 pm
Jay - I hope you weren't suggesting that I didn't agree with you. I said, that both you and I think that the citizens should mature first, before letting go.

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Friday, 28 April 2006 6:55 pm ::
SALlie: Nope. We are on the same page here. Just reinforcing our point.

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Friday, 28 April 2006 8:48 pm
Jay, no, Hanson may be dumb and ignorant and may even look evil but she is not evil. She's just an ordinary lady fighting for her right in a country that allows her to speak up eventhough she may not have enough knowledge or capability in running a country on her own.

Sally, there are policies out there that are made solely because that's what the majority of the people wants. And that's democracy. So if they want to waste money on cleaners cleaning up their chewing gums, so be it. It's their right. That's my whole point. One should be allowed to protect their own self-interest or the self-interest of a small minority in a democratic country. Not only if you are smart enough or mature enough, or educated enough or whatever. Do you think the PAP will ever allow free political speech in Spore as long as they are in govt? I doubt it.

Sallie and Jay, what proof is there to say that Sporeans are immature besides the blogger who said she doesn't know why she is against the PAP? Is one blogger the representative of the majority of people? What if she refused to say anything for fear of the govt targeting her for what she has to say? What if the people are really matured enough to know that there will be some compromise and are matured enough to say, that's ok, that's the way the cookie crumbles and prepared for it?

As for putting so much confidence in the PAP to know what and when the citizens are ready for true democracy, it's like the PAP is treated to know all, except that PAP is no god and their values and beliefs are only a set of many other alternatives. Nothing wrong with that, but the power it has over each individual's rights and identity is like playing god.

As for paying 40% tax +++, we can get into another topic here, but for the sake of keeping within this topic, didn't you say you were making a decent living there despite the tax? So hasn't it all balanced and worked itself out eventhough 40% tax sounds large out of the context of the country's economic policies? (I suspect too it's a progressive rate system and not a flat rate?)

My conclusion is, Spore's political system is heavily controlled by the government. This factor makes the system non-democratic. Claims of people being immature enough to have true democracy may be a form of further control and may be unfounded until tested. The country is a hybrid of democracy, but not democratic enough to call itself a democratic society. Socialist democratic society yes, but that's like a vegetarian saying he eats some type of meat. There's nothing wrong with all that, but just don't call itself a democratic society just because it has elections! Whether Spore is able to survive and sustain its current economic status as a closer to true democratic country is an unknown which it has to be prepared to take on if true democracy is what it wants. It may be costly, but it may also be for the betterment of each individual. If it chooses to stick with what they currently have for fear of losing all, then there's nothing with that either.

30. aloe left...
Friday, 28 April 2006 9:26 pm
i'm "lost" reading all these... =S

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Friday, 28 April 2006 11:42 pm
Also Jay, the problem is, the voters are not 12 year olds, they are legal aged adults. Just because 21 year olds still act like 12 year olds doesn't mean they don't have the right to a driving licence, right? I believe child adults (ie.legally adult but mentally childish) will only learn adult behaviour through consequential learning not further mothering and protective behaviours.

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Saturday, 29 April 2006 6:18 pm ::
Mum2One: (1) While I agree that it is impossible the quantify the maturity of the average Singaporean voter but having traveled around the world and met with many people from different nationalities, I can say that by comparing us and them, we are ranked pretty poorly in terms of maturity.
Then again, it is just my own perspective and is subjected to refute from any party as they pleased.
(2) Granted that PAP's ruling has a tinge of "playing God", let me remind you that they were after all still the people's choice. Did we not voted them since as far back as 1959? Time to accept our own consequences? Time to stand up and take responsibilty for our earlier action?
(3) It is dangerous to give free rein blindly, in the name of democracy.
Perhaps I am in line with PAP to say that for the common good, we must exercise some form of control.
A 21-year old is NOT ENTITLED to a driver's license as long as he has not passed the driver's test, regardless if he behaves like an idiotic 12 year-old or not. You missed the point there.
Just anyhow suka suka grant license automatically just because he has reached 21 years-old is pure foolishness as the consquences can go beyond just himself. He can get into car accidents and kill/injure other people. Then, how do we account for these unfortunate "other people"?

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Saturday, 29 April 2006 10:02 pm
Ahhh... so they are given a test right? So also should the citizens be a chance to test their maturity. If fail, always got PAP to vote for again in next election, right? What I mean is they are legally entitled to get a licence (yes, provided they do the test and pass) but it's their right to sit for the test, right? So too are Sporeans.
Anyway, it's been a really great stimulating discussion and I've thoroughly enjoyed it. I think we both get each other's point and perhaps time to agree to disagree. **Shake hands**, **take a bow**, *clap hands* for all involved, you and Sallie.
In some sense, I don't mind if Spore remains the way it is because it's a safe and familiar destination for me to go back to. But that's just me being selfish because I don't have to live there. Just a couple of weeks every few years is nice. A wonderful place for taking a holiday and visit good ole friends.

34. JayWalk left...
Sunday, 30 April 2006 6:30 am :: 
Mum2One: It was fun bantering isn't it? Remember our Darwin debate back in the good old days? Ahh... sweet memories.... :)

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Monday, 1 May 2006 6:01 am
Yes, it was good bantering, and it was time to agree to disagree, which was what I was trying to imply when I said we had a chicken/egg situation. speak to you all later. have a great bank holiday...

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Monday, 1 May 2006 6:07 am
oh, I just wanted to add that I think it is probably very 'easy' and very 'convenient' for those of us who live overseas (me, Jay and Mum2One amongst others) to 'criticise' the PAP for what they've done/not done. We're probably not living the day-to-day life there, not experiencing things as the Singaporeans who live there experience, so perhaps we should not be too critical of things as they stand. surely if those who live there aren't happy/satisfied etc, they will eventually be motivated to do something about it.
as for the 40% tax comment, I was merely pointing out that that's what the higher-category earners pay in this country. the lowest tax is at 22%, not a small amount either, especially when VAT/GST is at 17.5%. Yes, I'm making what I think is a decent living (as compared to the rest of the country), I think the government here would classify me at least as middle income earner. But there are many things that my tax can go towards (health service, transport, crime, education etc) which I feel would be much more useful, than say cleaning gum off the tubes and the streets. but that of course, is just my opinion - given that i live in this country.

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Monday, 1 May 2006 1:30 pm :: 
SALlie: On the same token, being overseas allows me to see and "praise" what PAP has done/not done for this country.
And I TOTALLY agree with you that there are better things to spend money on (e.g. handicap, crime, education etc.) than scrapping gum off the floors of void decks and mrts.

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Monday, 1 May 2006 10:38 pm
Jay, yes, those were good times... I must have some argumentative streak in me, huh? Hmmm...something for me to ponder on...

Well, can I add that I on the other hand, chose not to go back to live in Spore. It's not like I don't live there so I don't know what it's like. I've lived there and I know what it's like and I like going there for holidays, do shopping, eat full-full, but when it comes to living there for good, it's a different story.

Sure I don't enjoy stepping on chewing gums and feeling gums stuck under seats and there's always better use of money. I don't disagree that there's a lot of wastage and futility in the more democratic societies. There seems to be more pressing and bigger needs in the other areas of law enforcement than catching people who smuggle in chewing gums. But I find it's a more equitable system overall.

It's a choice I personally prefer even with the awareness of all that. I value individual rights and freedom and in return I respect others for their differences. I believe that everyone is at a different level of maturity, thought process, and have different values and beliefs so I've just got to give and take the good and the bad with the good (obviously I find more good than bad that's why I prefer it).

I want to emphasise that there's nothing wrong with Spore choosing that style of governance if they've thought through things and finally agreeing that giving up their individual rights for the better good of everyone is what they really want and not more democracy. Whether they really have had that choice or not is what I'm not too sure about. Well, time will tell.

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Monday, 1 May 2006 11:18 pm
Jay, yes living overseas for the last 10 years in 3 different countries has given me the opportunity to 'praise' the PAP for what they have/not done for the country I was born in, and I'm happy to do that. Exactly why I think most Singaporeans (especially those who complain for 'no reason', or at least 'no reasonable reason) ought to spend some time away from the country, just to appreciate what they have.

Mum2One, we've all lived in Singapore. We all know what it's like in that country. But we aren't living there anymore (the operative word here being 'lived there'), and what we see when we are back there is the 'holiday' version; we're there for a couple of weeks a year, we hear stories from our friends/relatives, we read the newspaper (if at all). that does not make us 'experts' as to what the country ought to be like (just because we live in 'democratic' countries?!).

So, you chose to move to Australia because you 'value individual rights and freedom'? Do you think Singapore does not value individual rights? Why then can at least 3 major racial groups coexist together, mostly peacefully? Why then can at least most of the major religions of the world coexist peacefully in Singapore? I think that's valuing and respecting individual rights.

With regards to your issue of 'whether they have that choice', they are given the choice at election (just as you, I and everyone else who live in countries that hold elections are given). Sometimes the choice is a difficult one (e.g. choosing a PAP candidate over the opposition like Chiam See Tong - I think he's been an MP for at least 10 years if not more?), sometimes the choice is an easy one (why not vote for a credible PAP candidate versus someone whom we don't know much about). I don't think Singaporeans don't have a choice. It's about making a credible decision...Singaporeans aren't stupid, you know.

And yes, time will tell. Which is what Jay and I have been saying all this while (I hope this is what he's been saying anyway!) - we've had 40 odd years of PAP in power. We've also had mostly good prosperous years, low crime, good standard of living, etc. The people are perhaps ready to be more mature now, people will be more open minded to things; these people will choose then, how they want to be led. and you know, they aren't sheep. they will be smart sheep. i think chosing the right leader and right party to lead them, is the doing of smart people, not just people who "agree that giving up their individual rights for the better good of everyone is what they really want and not more democracy".

According to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, people start off at the lowest level with physiological needs, safety needs and move on to the third level of friendship/social needs. The fourth and fifth levels are much more difficult to reach for (self-actualisation) and most people don't reach it. But they try. Of course, there are many many critiques to Maslow's theory, some being that people don't operate in stages, that his theory was based on the 'western' world and that eastern culture people don't operate in the same way and so on. If we more or less agree with Maslow's theory, then we'll see that Singaporeans have reached the third level, and we're on our way to the 4th/5th stages - stages that perhaps the more developed/older civilisations have already reached. Give Singaporeans a chance to find their footing in the world. that's all I'm saying.

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Tuesday, 2 May 2006 12:44 am
Sallie, I too have lived in 3 different countries. Have been living in Australia for 15 years, and 11 years in Singpapore.
I get your drift but perhaps where we differ is I'm more skeptical of govts that have quite a bit of control over freedom of speech. My point is, yes, there's the right to vote but without the freedom of speech, voters may not be voting with all the information available to them to make good decisions, therefore, do they really have a well-informed choice? Who decides if those information is good or bad? Sporean themselves or the govt? That's where I'm questioning.
I admit I don't really have the facts in front of me to decide that for myself and I am hoping discussions like this would bring up some factual arguments that would refute my skepticism.
You misunderstood my point on respect for individuals. I agree, there is social tolerance in Singapore by the different races, but the fact that freedom of speech is more restricted in Spore means the people sacrifices to a greater extent (than more democratic societies) their individual voice for the collective good of society. Thus the collective good of Singaporeans is upheld over individuals rights. Unless you disagree with that?
I haven't based my opinion on the stories my friends tell me. I've based it on my own experiences and my understanging of the different political systems. Granted, they may be conceptual and untrue but that's why we have discussions like this for.

41. Mum2One left...
Tuesday, 2 May 2006 12:51 am
Also Sallie, on one hand you say they are not mature enough to have a more democratic society and on the other you say they are smart enough to make informed choices? It sounds contradictory to me.

42. Sallie left...
Tuesday, 2 May 2006 1:31 am
I didn't say that they were matured NOW - I said we are starting to open up. not being contradictory.

all I am saying is, they have to start somewhere... surely you have to agree that the way our generation grew up (in the 70s/80s/90s) is completely different from the way our parents grew up (through the British transition, when Singapore broke away from Malaya etcetc), and how the current generation is growing up (exposure to MTV, internet, going on exotic holidays during school holidays, flying business/first class etc?!!). Surely the way your son is being brought up (granted, in a different country from the one you grew up in) will be different from that of yours, and NOT JUST BECAUSE of the country differential.
Freedom of speech is a matter of perception - you think it's more restricted in Singapore. Others might agree, but how about freedom of speech in China, in fundamentalistic countries in the middle-east and so on? Some may feel that freedom of speech is something worth 'sacrificing' for in return for safety and cleanliness on the streets. Some may not.

I don't think it's a matter of disagreeing or agreeing with that - it's more a perception. Clearly you think 'freedom of speech' is restricted in Singapore - and that is a 'sacrifice'. Perhaps that's why you left? If that's the reason (or one of the main reasons) why you left Singapore, fair enough. My reasons for leaving Singapore were completely different.
Let's just leave it as that - I personally feel that we're going in circles and what we'll end up saying will end up in the chicken/egg situation of which came first. We can argue till the cows come home that we need maturity before democracy, and you vice-versa. Nothing's going to be gained from it, especially more so when none of us (Jay included) actually live in Singapore and have a current, up-to-date experience of living there. For all you know, we might just be mis-informed. That would be rather embarrassing, don't you think? :)
Another thing, I recall you said that you have yet to watch the dialogue the 20somethings had with the MM. Perhaps you should take a look at it...and then come to some conclusions?

43. Sallie left...
Tuesday, 2 May 2006 1:53 am
Also, Mum2One, you seem to assume that with society being dynamic and constantly changing(as does everything else), Singaporeans will remain the way they are..? Isn't that just not realistic? Things will change, definitely - like I said above, the way things were when our parents grew up, was different from the way we grew up and ditto for the current generation. Everything changes - you seem to want things to change NOW at the next election..and sorry, that's just not possible.

It's about adaptive and progressive change and change needs to take into consideration the environment it's in, and the resources it has. For successful change to take place, the environment has to be appropriate, and the resources has to be sufficient to cope with it. Resources include the people, the skills, the knowledge and the abilities.

Over here (as I'm sure they are all over the world), alot of the toddlers are put on children leashes (not unlike those that dogs are put on when they go on walks).. they help the children walk, and yet not allow them to stray too far. When they are completely able to walk by themselves, we stop putting our toddlers on leashes and hold their hands.

Sometimes we let go of the hands and they continue to walk unaided, and we're so proud of them. When it comes to a road or a junction, we rush up to them and hang on tight, or we shout at them to stop walking and wait for us.

Might be a simplistic analogy and there is much more to consider when running a country, of course...but I hope you get the point.

Another thing is, Singapore's very much smaller and vulnerable compared to the larger countries surrounding them, and in the world. It may (I don't know) need more control and systems in place to keep things ticking over. It might have to do with the 'asian mentality' too. I know when I discuss parenting skills (back to the parenting analogies!) with my husband who is English, we have differing notions of how/when to let go of our children, and we don't even have kids yet. One eg: I go on about providing our kids with savings accounts from the day they are born (as did my parents when I was born so I had a lovely big POSB account when I turned 18, which I couldn't really touch before that), and my husband did not grow up with that sort of backing (and after doing a quick survey amongst my English friends, neither did any of them, rich or poor). It appears that when they turn 18, basically they are adults and can do whatever they want so to speak. What happened when most Singaporeans turned 18? They continued to stay at home (furthest they go is the halls at NTU/NUS), they continue to get pocket money from their parents, most get their tuition fees paid for by parents. Singaporeans continue to stay at home after graduation and most (not all) continue to do that till they get married. Some may say well, it only takes half an hour by car across Singapore anyway so no need to move house, rent a room/flat somewhere - but that's hardly the point isn't it? It's about independence, freedom and so on.

I'm digressing here - all I'm saying is that I think we're comparing apples with pears... sure both are fruits, but that's where the similarities end. I think the Singaporean culture is unique, as will the Singaporean identity. Democracy and all that is an ideal, for most and I think yes, it's something to strive for (just like holiness and Godliness) but it's difficult for most to even reach half way. Democracy in itself can be interpreted in many ways...and due to our cultural background, Singapore will interpret it in their own unique way. No right or wrong about it.

I hope I'm not rambling - it's getting late and I need to have my dinner soon. First, I need to cook it - oh what I'll do for a char kway teow to da-pao!

44. Mum2One left...
Wednesday, 3 May 2006 2:37 am
Yes I agree we are definitely going in circles. We seem to have different idea of where Sporeans really are. I keep saying that the more democratic society does not have to have a 'right' demographic of people. The open environment itself will promote justice and equality. But you and Jay seem to think that there must be a right type of citizens before the PAP will introduce more freedom of speech.

Are they underage citizens or are they child adults? The level of protection differs if you are caring for an underage child from if you are caring for an adult who is still childish. In the latter you let practice consequential learning. In the former, you have to do both consequential learning as well as forceful intervention where the child will be harmed.
I'm a great believer that people can change and society changes and is dynamic and that change does not happen overnight. But there are obtacles and factors that either slows down the process or increase the process. And in my opinion, the restricted freedom of speech is an impediment. Sure, it's not overnight, but what are the factors that are causing the pace is my question (other than Sporeans not mature yet.)

Yes, Spore must do it in their own way and in their own time and form their own identity. I don't disagree with that at all but I think people should still discuss Spore's current political system if any progress forward is going to hapen at all. There's always room for improvement just like any country has and that's all to it.

I'm not sure if I agree that freedom of speech is a matter of perception. You can't compare freedom of speech with a communist country or a country that does not profess to be democratic. But I do concede that no country has got 100% freedom of speech - just how much closer to 100%. There's definitely benchmarks available there.

Anyways, enough said. We're definitely going in circles... Char Kway Teow sounds nice.

45. JayWalk left...
Wednesday, 3 May 2006 2:32 pm ::
Mum2One & SALlie: Holy Cow! I went offline for a few days and I see the comments longer than my actual blog entry!!
I read until my eyes blur like @.@
Anyway, just like to add that Mum2One, you haven't changed it bit. Debating with you here is like reliving the good old days again.
I don't think I have anymore to contribute here although I must say that I am closer to SALlie on this but we all have our own valid points to take note of.