20 June 2008

Girl Molested - My View II

Ok, I have a confession to make.

The mystery email that was sent to CowboyCaleb was written by me. I have chosen to do it that way was so that people who are friends with me as well as with Jean will not get caught in the middle. Hence the need of "neutral" ground.

However, all that has changed. I can't be arsed after yesterday's revelation.

I know by coming out in the open with this, I am inviting flamers and trolls to come get me. Well, here's the thing. I wrote it and I am not afraid to admit it. I sure am glad that many folks had a good laugh over it as that was the only intention to which I penned it.

Before anyone labels me as an asshat who is insensitive to what happened to her that night, let me go on record to say that Yes, I am sorry. I am sorry to learn that Jean had the misfortune to be touched inappropriately (mistakenly or otherwise).

I am however, not apologetic for everything else.

And I may quote TigerKiller (20 Jun 2008) from the CowBoyBar:

" be honest, I think its ok for a guy and gal to be in a hotel room without all the piak piak piak. (<-This is my copyright. pls stop using.)

Moreover, she said no. He backed off and didn't force her.

What is damning is she failed to mention the money he gifted her.

I think while its fine for him to want back the $$$, whether he gets it or not doesn't matter at all. When you lend someone $$$, be prepared to lose it all.

By the way, it isn't just $48k. Think about the 2 years of paying all the food, drinks movies, romantic meals, transport....I think the real value could be way above $48k. And i think one of the main reasons why she asked him to Korea was probably because he would be doing most of the everyday spending.

Whether she likes to admit it to herself, she is materialistic and should reflect on her own personality. Cause this whole thing just smeared her own rep on the Net. She should have just kept it real quiet." 

I am sure that struck a chord with many of us guys for I can safely tell you that every guy alive on this planet would have been carrot top chopped by a woman at least once in his lifetime.

I have. Many times. Not exactly proud of it but I'd just chalk it up as a lesson to be learned. However, I must say that I am pretty lucky as I have yet to be stuck with a SGD 48,000.00 bill.

Hmm.... what can I buy with SGD 48,000.00?

There are some hearts money just can't buy.
 For everything else, there is MasterBate.

Image Credit:
- Voxeros

1. Mistress Grace left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 1:44 pm
Wah! Finally you decided to come out of the closet ah!! Good for yew!!!!

2. spiller left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 2:06 pm
haha. MasterBate. good one bro.
this 2 fellas should go somewhere far far and hide themselves.
one is LorBert another one is Lulu.

3. grasshopper left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 2:29 pm
I totally enjoyed it! I meant the email......I have no doubts about your writing skills.

4. Old Beng left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 2:53 pm
I have been thinking all this while that you are actually Rockson.

5. barffie left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 3:00 pm

6. JayWalk left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 3:04 pm :: 
Mistress Grace: Harlow!!! What coming out of the closet? Say until like machiam I ish gay like that. Pffftttt...... *bitch fit*

spiller: I read this on AsiaOne forum: Man are from Mars. Women are from Venus. These two are from Kum Lan Land. LOL...

Grasshopper: Thanks thanks. I buy you dinner!

OldBeng & Barffie: I ish not Rockson lah. His Hokkien is way more eloquent than mine.

7. NNPC left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 4:20 pm ::
All hail Uncle JW

8. POsh left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 4:49 pm
No such thing as bad publicity....... or good publicity at that. No apologies needed whatsoever. You were factual to the best of your knowledge. And as TK had summed up best.... "she should have just kept it real quiet".

9. JayWalk left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 5:12 pm :: 
NNPC: Uncle your head lah! *bish*

Posh: Well, if you have read her latest entries, she is sticking by her story and not budging with the $48k gift.

So what if it was really a gift of $48,000. If the fella is making so much noise now, I would return the money in an instant rather than to be accuse of shamelessly hogging on to it and contesting it for dear life.

Surely, a person's dignity is worth more than that?

10. Mistress Grace left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 5:22 pm
I purplely one mah..Cannot ah? Bitch fit simi lah...!!!

11. spinnee left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 5:23 pm
in the midst of all this, i still think it's hella funny!!! HAHAHAH
oh yes, u could run for rockson's office as a substitute blogger in his absence... or u know, like some manager for rockson. like those celebrities who ask their mgrs to blog for them.. hAHHAHAHA

12. Shelly left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 5:31 pm
KNS! Can you also include the 3 kittens' food+kitty litter on top of the $15 he owe me or not?! They eat and shit A LOT ok?

13. POsh left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 5:34 pm
Jay dear, I just read her latest comments. "Succès de scandale" is all I can say. Principles that you treasure may not be to some and to persist in folly is one's own doing.
48K.... walau, do you know how many bags I can buy!?! starting with my chanel 2.55!

14. Chocolate gal left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 7:33 pm
Somehow i just want to get this case over with and stop giving her all that free publicity.. it is just so irritating..

15. JayWalk left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 9:11 pm :: 
Mistress Grace: Pfffttt......... *hiss*

Spinnee: I'll take that as a compliment but no thanks. I am my own man and not somebody else's image. Besides, Rockson got me so KPCT yan dao meh? :P

Shelly: Well, if you can provide a new dollar amount for me to crunch, I'd be happy to amend the figures for you.

Posh: Well, according to Linny, 48K can get you 4 individually customised Hermes bag. Fwah.....

Chocolate Gal: Don't worry about it. It will blow over in a couple of weeks and it would all be forgotten.

16. Ruok left...
Friday, 20 June 2008 10:21 pm
I have no doubts about your writing skill too! I'll claim my dinner from you when you come back.

17. JayWalk left...
Saturday, 21 June 2008 7:05 am :: 
ruok: Hahaha... cheeky monkey! On lah.... wait for me to come back. :)

18. TTY left...
Saturday, 21 June 2008 9:18 am
JW, go update quick. KNN!

19. JayWalk left...
Saturday, 21 June 2008 10:58 am :: 
TTY: KNN! I ish not Rockson lah!!! He where got me so KPCT yan dao??!!?

20. barffie left...
Saturday, 21 June 2008 11:07 am
I also want dinner =[

21. JayWalk left...
Saturday, 21 June 2008 11:46 am :: 
Barffie: Gee... this is starting to sound like a soup kitchen for the homeless liao. :(

22. cocotree left...
Saturday, 21 June 2008 12:39 pm
next, you're going to confess that you are that carrot boy.

23. JayWalk left...
Saturday, 21 June 2008 2:59 pm :: 
cocotree: Carrot boy confession done a long time ago. Search my blog under the keyword "Lorbert Series".

24. fitti left...
Saturday, 21 June 2008 7:52 pm
chey....i really thot Rockson was back hokay?!! I is heart him leep leep! If this teacher succeeds in transforming into an ah lian, it's all because of Rockson Takumi Tan hokay!!!!!! heart heart heart!

25. Pam left...
Saturday, 21 June 2008 10:45 pm
well done dude...well done! :) parody indeed...can't believe she's making such a big deal of it though (having said that, I wouldn't have thought writing something in one's blog was meant to be publicised in such a manner (i know blogs are public etcetc, but still!). Which makes me wonder about the state of the Singaporean mindset (in general!)... that such a matter can make news, albeit tabloid news! Poor naive man. and as for the woman, she's a pathetic excuse and an embarrassment to women. don't think it was right of him to 'take advantage' of her, but to be fair, he backed off once she told him off right?

26. JayWalk left...
Sunday, 22 June 2008 9:27 am :: 
fitti: Walau... you heart heart Rockson then no heart heart me har? iJealous.

Pam: I don't think it is fair to say that she represent the mindset of the Singaporean women in general. Then again, I don't think she is Singaporean.

27. Pam left...
Monday, 23 June 2008 1:39 am
oh - wasn't referring to her as the typical Singaporean mindset - I meant the fact that it appeared in the tabloid news!! ie, the news editors thought it was newsworthy, with the headline 'she let me hug her'!!

28. JayWalk left...
Monday, 23 June 2008 9:23 am :: 
Pam: Q: Why has Singaporean journalists got to do with global warming?

A: They are full of hot air, they stir up storms out of nothing and everybody wish they'd go away.

29. barffie left...
Monday, 23 June 2008 11:40 am

30. JayWalk left...
Monday, 23 June 2008 2:05 pm :: 
Barffie: Having a good time so far?

31. fitti left...
Monday, 23 June 2008 10:08 pm
to be able to write like my Rockson Takumi Tan, I heart chu 2!

32. JayWalk left...
Tuesday, 24 June 2008 12:40 am :: 
fitti: I come back then you heart me lah.... *blush*

33. fitti left...
Tuesday, 24 June 2008 11:32 am
men who blush are cute lah! *tickle tickle* =D

34. Val left...
Wednesday, 25 June 2008 1:36 am
For the record, I'm female.
I sympathised with you when I 1st read Caleb's post. Wooing a woman and after 2yrs was asked to go on an overseas trip alone, share the same room... then the SAME BED! Geez! I would have taken that for an absolute green light!
For a female to willingly sleep in the same room, not to mention the same bed, as another man, that's an open invite, no matter how u look at it.
'Jane' has shamed not only herself but all women. It's disheartening to know that ppl will stoop so low as to lead someone on for 2 years.

35. JayWalk left...
Wednesday, 25 June 2008 7:49 am :: 
fitti: * B-L-U-S-H !!*

Val: Welcome to the blog! To clarify a bit, I am not the John in this saga but I believe John would thank you for the vote of confidence. I don't know John myself and as such my only hope of relaying your message to him is that he reads this blog. Cheers.

36. Tigerkiller left...
Monday, 7 July 2008 1:06 pm ::
Fwah...I was quoted by the great Jaywalk...
Not that any permission was asked hor... OR CREDIT GIVEN HOR... OR Website of Bear's Blog hor...
HUMPH. Its still great to be quoted.

37. JayWalk left...
Monday, 7 July 2008 5:28 pm :: 
Fine.... I gib you a BearBear ChalkBoard. Can?

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